For us it wasnt a matter of being ready. One of us is always ready. Its a matter of both of us being ready at the same time that makes it trickier.
If people waited until they were "ready" in every way, then no one would have a baby in the first place! Lol! Once you get in and have them, they fit right into your life and budget and it is great! : ) Remember, newborns sleep A LOT, so it eases you into juggling two! : )
It wasn't so much a matter of being ready....it just happened and I had to deal with it! It turned out to be a blessing though! I was scared and really unhappy about the situation at first but after baby number two was born it turned out to be a HUGE blessing!!
We knew it was time to ttc because it felt like someone was missing at the dinner table even though our whole family was sitting there.
I finally convinced DH that we should have another baby. I had been ready for a little bit, DH took some time.
There is no perfect time honestly. There will be better times and worse times but never a perfect time.



- Gina1109
on Jan. 7, 2013 at 12:46 PM