Getting remarried.... question about our children and the reception? Edit
My fiance and I are in a bit of a pickle right now. We will be getting married 1/11/2014. We have 2 children from previous relationships and while our kids will be in the wedding, I don't want children at my reception. How on earth could we make it so we can take the children BACK to our ex's (it will be their weeks with them, we are on a week on, week off schedule) but we....A) don't have to invite our exes to the wedding (because they would be who would take the children so that we can leave for our honeymoon) B) Won't have to meet our exes in our wedding attire (again because they are the ones who will take the kids) and C) Make it so our family members don't miss out on the fun of the reception? (first dance, dinner, pictures, etc.... Btw both of our exes live at least an hour away from our ceremony site. Any ideas?