Just before thanksgiving me and my EX broke up we were together on and off for 10 years. In the past 3 years we have broken up 3 times but got back together after a little while. I'm not going to lie I do still love him he gave me to beautiful kids and part of me wishes that we could work things out and get back together. But my family acts like he was abusive or something they have told me if I ever get back together with him they will disown me. Not only would I lose my entire family mi kids would to and they are innocent in all of this but they would be punished for my decision. Keep in mind that me and my EX have not been talking about getting back together. But it bothers me that my whole family would disown me if I went back. Honestly I don't think I could ever go back because I can't handle all the lieing and cheating and me and the kids deserve much better than that and he will never change. You can't help who you love and we were together for a long time. But my family has pretty much made this decision for my if it ever came down to it I would have to walk away and chose my family. My parents now how hard this has been for me and how I still have feelings for him and how I can't ever imagine being with someone else but that doesn't matter to them. My brother is married to a psycho but they have never told him that they would disown him if he stayed with her. I guess I'm just venting and feeling a little frustrated that my family made this decision for me without asking how I really feel.
on Jan. 8, 2013 at 7:42 AM