Is there a way to be tactful about this???
Ok, I am expecting our third child in a month, and I have been going over this problem in my head for about, oh, the whole dang pregnancy. See, my brother in law, bless him, has a girlfriend that is, let's just say, a dirty hooker, and that's being nice. She's been around a while, but came into the picture after my son was old enough to not be held. This time, she will be around to want to hold the new baby. I really don't want her to touch my child...ever. How do I say get the message across without offending the little tramp? It really is in the new baby's best interest and best for her health that this woman not touch her ever ever ever. Can I be nice about this? What would you do??