so im curious how many of you would do this every day for your man and not.complain?update
my husband leaves around 6:30 am for work and comes home at 9.for break so im to.be up before then and have breakfast started. when he is home i finish breakfast and bring it to.him along with drink. he usually takes a nap when he leaves i am to get his stuff and hand it to.him so he can leave. when he comes home(usually 5-6) im to fix supper,bring him his plate/drink along with mine and the kids. afterwards clean up after him wash dishes cleam kitchen ect. after everything else i.do.including getting the kids off to bed if theres anything he wants a drink,snack,desert,cigarette guess who.has to get it?.yep me. basically his job when he is home is park it on couch and his every need/want is
my.job and he says i.should do.this because he works and i.dont.
update: so the part i left out is he is ocd. he counts everything he does 4 times and he has had this 4 years. i know i married him for sickness AND health however i feel i have done this 4 yrs its time you put forth the effort to quit. why make my life harder to avoid counting? its not fair and everytime i rise up he gives me the pity story about how its so hard in his shoes. btw he does nothing for me.