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so im curious how many of you would do this every day for your man and not.complain?update

Posted by on Jan. 10, 2013 at 11:39 PM
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heres what i usually.do.on a daily basis:
my husband leaves around 6:30 am for work and comes home at 9.for break so im to.be up before then and have breakfast started. when he is home i finish breakfast and bring it to.him along with drink. he usually takes a nap when he leaves i am to get his stuff and hand it to.him so he can leave. when he comes home(usually 5-6) im to fix supper,bring him his plate/drink along with mine and the kids. afterwards clean up after him wash dishes cleam kitchen ect. after everything else i.do.including getting the kids off to bed if theres anything he wants a drink,snack,desert,cigarette guess who.has to get it?.yep me. basically his job when he is home is park it on couch and his every need/want is
my.job and he says i.should do.this because he works and i.dont.
update: so the part i left out is he is ocd. he counts everything he does 4 times and he has had this 4 years. i know i married him for sickness AND health however i feel i have done this 4 yrs its time you put forth the effort to quit. why make my life harder to avoid counting? its not fair and everytime i rise up he gives me the pity story about how its so hard in his shoes. btw he does nothing for me.
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3boysmommaNY
by on Jan. 10, 2013 at 11:40 PM
no, not at all
supermom0609
by on Jan. 10, 2013 at 11:41 PM
no.meaning you.wouldnt complain at all or no.you wouldnt do.it?


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no, not at all

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numonestunar
by on Jan. 10, 2013 at 11:42 PM
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My mom. She worked too. She cooked my dad a hot breakfast every morning, packed him lunch, took care of the home and had dinner on the table at 5pm every night. She was/is supermom.
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supermom0609
by on Jan. 10, 2013 at 11:42 PM
oh.and let me add ive been doing this for 4 years! and if i am sick i am luckey to get one day down
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joshlor2
by Platinum Member on Jan. 10, 2013 at 11:43 PM
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Nope, I am his wife not a servant.
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Ktina11
by Silver Member on Jan. 10, 2013 at 11:43 PM
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Nope. Dh and I each do 50% of all the work. He may make more money outside the home ( I WAH), but I am with the kids all day too. He does dishes and helps with laundry when he gets home from work.
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supermom0609
by on Jan. 10, 2013 at 11:43 PM
this aint.50's anymore lol


Quoting numonestunar:

My mom. She worked too. She cooked my dad a hot breakfast every morning, packed him lunch, took care of the home and had dinner on the table at 5pm every night. She was/is supermom.

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numonestunar
by on Jan. 10, 2013 at 11:43 PM
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Except my dad helped too. He wasnt a douche.
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PinkParadox
by on Jan. 10, 2013 at 11:44 PM
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I didn't marry a child, nor am I a servant in my own home.
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supermom0609
by on Jan. 10, 2013 at 11:44 PM
ha if kill over if dh did that..id proly literally pass out


Quoting Ktina11:

Nope. Dh and I each do 50% of all the work. He may make more money outside the home ( I WAH), but I am with the kids all day too. He does dishes and helps with laundry when he gets home from work.

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