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Sometimes, I wish my stepdaughter's mother...

Posted by on Jan. 11, 2013 at 8:24 AM
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......was a bad mother, then I would never have to give her back.

She and her boyfriend just left with her mother to go back home and I am in tears. I am so sad.

Don't sweat the petty things;Don't pet the sweaty things!

by on Jan. 11, 2013 at 8:24 AM
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CJsMommy92
by on Jan. 11, 2013 at 8:39 AM

Why haven't you had your own child?

laranadtony
by Emerald Member on Jan. 11, 2013 at 8:41 AM
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Quoting CJsMommy92:

Why haven't you had your own child?

???I do have my own children. That does not mean I cannot adore my stepdaughter and her mother and her boyfriend.

Don't sweat the petty things;Don't pet the sweaty things!

edelweiss23
by on Jan. 11, 2013 at 8:41 AM
Have your own kids.

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laranadtony
by Emerald Member on Jan. 11, 2013 at 8:43 AM
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Quoting edelweiss23:

Have your own kids.

Um, I had 9. Why do people keep saying this?

Don't sweat the petty things;Don't pet the sweaty things!

crwspringer
by Platinum Member on Jan. 11, 2013 at 8:43 AM
You are a good person for loving another woman's child the way you do.
My step mom was quite unfair and cold to me and my sisters compared to how she treated her real son.
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laranadtony
by Emerald Member on Jan. 11, 2013 at 8:45 AM
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Quoting crwspringer:

You are a good person for loving another woman's child the way you do.
My step mom was quite unfair and cold to me and my sisters compared to how she treated her real son.

I love her like I do my own. Her mother called my husband and said she almost just  left them here because I was so upset. They are grown but I still love them.

They are coming to live with us in march. 

Don't sweat the petty things;Don't pet the sweaty things!

CJsMommy92
by on Jan. 11, 2013 at 8:45 AM

Aw well that's really sweet :) I know a step parent can love their children. It's just most step parents who adore their step children don't have any of their own which is why I asked.

Y2kmomma
by Bronze Member on Jan. 11, 2013 at 8:46 AM
Why's everyone so mean..goodness...
I'm sorry you are bumming.
I have a somewhat similar situation.
My husbands best friend since he was like 5, is a single Dad to two little girls (3,4) he has a job that he has to leave a few days at a time. I (well DH & I) take the girls when he has to work. Well this last job was 18 days, he got back yesterday and picked them up. I'm so bummed =(. I love the girls like my own, I have spent so much time with them and am there only mother figure.
I can at least see them whenever I want to. But it's still not the same as them being with me 24/7 lol.
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CJsMommy92
by on Jan. 11, 2013 at 8:47 AM
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Yeah my stepmother used to lie about me to my dad because she was afraid he'd like me better than the son she had. She got me in trouble for things I didn't do al the time! I'm glad to meet a nice stepmother! Also sorry you had to deal with a bad one aswell Crwspringer

Quoting crwspringer:

You are a good person for loving another woman's child the way you do.
My step mom was quite unfair and cold to me and my sisters compared to how she treated her real son.


aimlee
by on Jan. 11, 2013 at 8:49 AM
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thats really sweet of you. At least she has a great mother and step mother though :) She is a lucky girl

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