I love my daughter, but shes so needy its driving me crazy. I want to just hide for a day.
She doesn't walk or crawl. She doesn't talk. She wants to be carried all day everyday and if she'll sit in her entertainer for 5 minutes, i'm lucky. She has a shit ton of toys, she just got $350 in new toys for christmas. She probably hasn't play with even a quarter of them. She could care less all she wants is to be carried. She cant entertain herself if you put her on the floor with toys, shes not happy sitting in her highchair to eat; we have to hold her to feed her.
and yes i know im gonna get "hold her all you can, pretty soon you wont be able to hold her at all" but seriously, NO. dont give me that shit, yes i love to hold her. But at 10 months she should be more than able to entertain herself for more than 5 minutes.
Theres nothing wrong with her. She can be feed, changed, everything perfectly fine but unless shes held shes not happy. We've tried those carriers like snugli and whatever other brand it is and she won't do it, she'll headbutt, pull your hair, scratch. she wants to be in your hands.
Even to put her to sleep, you have to be holding her. Shes never once fell asleep by laying down by herself and we've tried a million times.
I want to pull my hair out and cry.
Im not willing to let her cry it out but i need suggestions. I cant take much more of it.