Ok... I stopped talking to my sister about two and a half years ago. Why? Her husband of 7 years left her for someone else. Like, Literally ran from her. The while time she was crying and depressed who was there? Who was her shoulder to cry on? Who was telling her things will be ok? Me! All while someone was telling her ex all the things she had done behind her back all those seven years and she was talking shit to everyone saying it was me an what a bitch I was.
Okay, after I found that out I told her to go fuck herself and she'd regret it because it wasn't me.
Well one day my older brother came and told me that they had been talking and he was trying to talk to her about the issues between my sister and I. My sister told him she hoped my kids and I die and go to hell, including SO.
So I was pissed the whole time but once I heard that, it was over. She brought my kids into her drama and I was ready to kick her ass.
She's never been a "sister". She's always talked shit about me behind my back and always spread lies.
Even tried sleeping with exes. Mmmhmm.
My mom has been trying to get me to talk to her since it all started with her husband leaving her. I don't want to. My mom thinks its because of SO. He doesn't want anything to do with her because of what he said about te kids. He told me he doesn't care if I talk to her but he doesn't want her around him or the kids.
I'm tired of giving her chances. There have been numerous times throughout our lives that I've stopped talking to her for months at a time. (This two and a half years is the longest) and every time she comes back crying saying she misses me and loves me and won't do what she did again blah blah blah.. And there I go. I Forgive her and then a few months later, Aalllll over again. Talking shit about me to everyone behind my back and to my face "I love you sister blah blah"
I'm tired of dealing with her drama. She causes drama with everyone not just me. Spreading rumors about everyone and having problems with others for sleeping with their men.
I'm the complete opposite of her and these two and a half years have been drama free. Except for the time my uncle had a get together and she was there drunk and started talking shit to SO and I in front of everyone.
My mom gets mad that I don't want to be around her for longer than the "oh hi" when she happens to be at my moms while I'm there.
What would you do? Forget everything? Like my mom says, she's my only sister.
She's just never been sisterly.
Ugh. Can't stand her fake-ness either.
Sorry if this is all over the place, I'm just typing what I'm thinking :)