I'm a small person so whether I wear heels or not everyone towers over me, so it hurts my feet back and legs so I said screw it, however my dh does not like me in flats says I'm way to small! Ugh
Doesnt help that all my friends are all tall and my dh is a very big guy tall and stocky
We were at a party 2 weeks ago and on the way home he said you need to wear heels you look like a child from behind, my shortest ex was 5'9 and there you are up to people's elbows wear heels or don't come out!
Im 4'10ish so I'm not that small