What would you do?

[brettsmomma]

 My sons birthday is in a week. I have his party planned at a place that's 21.99 a kid. I sent out 6 invitations to his favorite friends at school. Its been 3 weeks and not one mom has RSVP'ed. I put on the invites to please take the time to let me know if they are coming because I have to pay regardless and would just invite other kids. NOT ONE MOM has got back to me. Should I send out the alternative invites or just roll the dice and hope I'm not wasting that hundred bucks?

I mean seriously how hard is it to approach me when picking up the kid from school, or email me or call me? I find it very rude.

[FooLynRoo]

I would approach them at school, and just ask casually for a confirmation either way.

and smile and be nice about it.

[christina0607]

You sent them out way too early. They probably forgot or misplaced the invite. I would go ahead and give then a call or ask them. 

[notjstasocermom]

I would just ask them at school.

[Hannahluvsdogs]

I would ask them at school or call them.

[TableforSeven]

Has the date your wrote down as an RSVP date passed?  If it has CALL THEM AND ASK.  I always called and asked anyone that was too lazy to reply to invites to my kids' birthday parties.  I refused to play guessing games.  

[chickensmommy]

This happened to me with my dd's party. Those that did not RSVP never came.

[brettsmomma]

 I wanted to ask but didnt want to seem pushy. KWIM? i will have to tho. thanks guys!