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What would you do?

Posted by on Jan. 17, 2013 at 10:09 AM
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 My sons birthday is in a week. I have his party planned at a place that's 21.99 a kid. I sent out 6 invitations to his favorite friends at school. Its been 3 weeks and not one mom has RSVP'ed. I put on the invites to please take the time to let me know if they are coming because I have to pay regardless and would just invite other kids. NOT ONE MOM has got back to me. Should I send out the alternative invites or just roll the dice and hope I'm not wasting that hundred bucks?

I mean seriously how hard is it to approach me when picking up the kid from school, or email me or call me? I find it very rude.

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by on Jan. 17, 2013 at 10:09 AM
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FooLynRoo
by on Jan. 17, 2013 at 10:12 AM

I would approach them at school, and just ask casually for a confirmation either way.

and smile and be nice about it.


christina0607
by on Jan. 17, 2013 at 10:14 AM

You sent them out way too early. They probably forgot or misplaced the invite. I would go ahead and give then a call or ask them. 

notjstasocermom
by Samantha on Jan. 17, 2013 at 10:14 AM

I would just ask them at school.

Hannahluvsdogs
by Hannah on Jan. 17, 2013 at 10:21 AM
I would ask them at school or call them.
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TableforSeven
by Judy on Jan. 17, 2013 at 10:46 AM

Has the date your wrote down as an RSVP date passed?  If it has CALL THEM AND ASK.  I always called and asked anyone that was too lazy to reply to invites to my kids' birthday parties.  I refused to play guessing games.  

chickensmommy
by Silver Member on Jan. 17, 2013 at 10:49 AM
This happened to me with my dd's party. Those that did not RSVP never came.
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brettsmomma
by Tammie on Jan. 17, 2013 at 12:28 PM

 I wanted to ask but didnt want to seem pushy. KWIM? i will have to tho. thanks guys!

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