SO Broke It Off, Due to His Family....UPDATE!
Anyways Sat SO was having a welcome home party for his daughter. I ask his friend B, at the house if she wanted help cooking. She ignored me. I then ask his cousin G if she needed help and I got go away. So I went into our room and watched tv with my boys.
We get to the park and none of the kids wanted to play with mine, so they played alone. I got ignored. As they were cleaning up I started having severe chest pains. I called my mom and she came and got my boys. I dont want them knowing my heart is acting up.
SO said hed take me to the er. His friends and family were po. Two hrs later and me in severe pain he was able to take me.
I checked out fine was told it was stres.
We woke up in the morning did our thing, then he took me home. Said i love yous and hugged. Thirty mints later when he got home, I got a text that it was over.
It was hurtful, but ill be ok. I guess.
What do you think?
UPDATE
So thanku so much ladies for your support and love. Im heading to the spa tomm, my guy friends are taking me there, shopping, manis pedis, and dinner. Happy happy!
As for the negative comments, i had no money for a cab whatever. I got shorted out of a hundred in my cs this mth. smh And my disability hasnt gone in yet.
He called me yesterday and said he felt stuck in the middle between his family and friends drama and me. He said give a wk or two, let it blow over then wed get back together. I said get a life and go elsewhere I am done.
So yeah hes regretting it and upset. i am done.
thank u and hugs ladies!
You deserve something better than a text, that's for sure. I think you also deserve better than his friends and Fam. I wonder what HE told them for them to act that way. It sounds bad, but if he griped to them about your relationship then that could be it. I think the kids not wanting to play with your kids is way weird. Kids usually play with each other unless there's an underlying cause. Good luck and don't worry about finding Mr Right, Look for your best friend because one day he will be there no matter what.
Do you have a lot of anxiety? I'm not asking you this to be mean, I promise, but are you difficult to be around, maybe? Do you take things the wrong way? Get offended easily? Oversensitive?
Those are all part of anxiety, so I'm just asking. Having severe heart pains from stress is not "normal".
I have a family member that is very, very difficult to be around because we have to walk on eggshells, and she's unintentionally offensive at times, over sensitive, anxious, and super controlling and fussy about things you would never even think to walk on eggshells about! of course, we know she doesn't mean to be, and we are not jerks, so we don't tell her any of that.
she takes medication that does help her manage her anxiety and stress, and in turn makes her more bearable.
I know i have poor social skills, but i do try hard to get and join. I am deaf and blind on my left side too, so its a bit hard to hear everybody.
If it gets to be too much, I say excuse give me ten, ill be back and i walk off.
I just started ordering my food at places, be able to go to a grocery store alone, drive, talk to people, hug, etc.
Im getting there lol. I push myself daily to be normal. :-)
Quoting veganistic:Do you have a lot of anxiety? I'm not asking you this to be mean, I promise, but are you difficult to be around, maybe? Do you take things the wrong way? Get offended easily? Oversensitive?
Those are all part of anxiety, so I'm just asking. Having severe heart pains from stress is not "normal".
I have a family member that is very, very difficult to be around because we have to walk on eggshells, and she's unintentionally offensive at times, over sensitive, anxious, and super controlling and fussy about things you would never even think to walk on eggshells about! of course, we know she doesn't mean to be, and we are not jerks, so we don't tell her any of that.
she takes medication that does help her manage her anxiety and stress, and in turn makes her more bearable.
Have fun with your friends!!!! :)
Quoting F_Stathouse:
I dont know. And when I confronted him about his daughter kicking my son in the crotch he said ok. ughh so done
My guy friends are taking me out this fri, sat, and sunday. Its a suprise.
Quoting DomesticDoll:
His family sounded like a bunch of assholes anyways! And what sort o parent let's their kids ignore other kids purposely at a family function?? If that's not bad parenting I don't know what is!! You're probably much better off!!!! On to new and better things for you!!!!! And what a chicken shit way of breaking things off with a txt!!!!! He's lame!!!!! Don't shed a tear over him!!!!
Any man who lets his family treat you that way is a man that doesn't respect you. I'd send him a text back that said, "Thank God, because your family is full of assholes and now I know you're one too!"
It sounds like this was for the best anyways. How do you know it was because of his family?
I think you are better off. Chest pains due to stress are a major warning to you that everything is just too much. I wouldn't take him back either. With the baggage and family he has, there are major red flags.
I think something is missing to the story.
Why doesn't his family like you? I have some major trailer trash, piece of shit family but they don't treat people like shit for no reason. So what is there reason?
Honestly, i think it is kind of needy/over dramatic/coincidental that you started having chest pains at his families event and he had to leave early to take you to the ER. Why wouldn't you have just left with your kids and had your mom drop you off at the ER?
What is so funny?
- F_Stathouse
on Jan. 17, 2013 at 12:02 PM