See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
My brothers g/f left him and their DD the end of July. Turns out she is pregnant. She's been drinking the entire time and doing coke. She lies to everyone. First she wasn't pregnant, then she was but getting an abortion. Told everyone she had one, the suddenly she was pregnant again. Then she had a miscarriage etc.. She is the kind of person who lies about lying. Anyways, my bff happens to be her sister. She told bff that she lost the baby so bff took her to the ER. She stayed with ex the entire time so she could hear the truth. She didn't lose the baby. Surprisingly baby is doing fine, best they can tell from her ultra sound anyways. She is due the first week of May which means that my brother is likely the father. But she started seeing her new b/f a week after leaving so it could be the new guys. I'm pretty sure if the baby isn't my brother's, then she'll want it. Otherwise, I'm terrified what shes going to do. She has 5 other kids, none of which she has much to do with, nor do they live with her. As of right now, she is still telling everyone that she lost the baby. Still drinking, still doing coke. Shes 24 weeks. Is there anything that we can do to help protect that poor baby?! She doesn't go to the dr for prenatal care or anything. IF her baby lives, its going to have serious problems. And then theirs the possibly of her doing something stupid after she has it. I feel so helpless! Is there anything we can do now, to advoid further damage to the baby and/or prevent something terrible from happening?