there was this boy that my now 14 year old dd hung out with over the summer. Well supervised but they became really close friends. He pretty much spent the summer at my house. He wasn't the only kid here on a daily basis we had a good 10-15 kids hanging out either at my house or at the local playground. I also have a 10 year old and I was pretty much always around. moving on her and this kid became good friends. when school started up again his girlfriend from the last school year was his girlfriend again. He was still spending a lot of time at my house. All of the local kids knew he was here a lot. word got back to his girlfriend and a ton of drama became of it. My dd refused to stop being friends with someone because of his girlfriend. Alot of threats were being passed around and I even once found about 6 girls waiting out side my house for my dd to get home. The thing is my dd is 2 grades above these kids. these kids are in 7th and my dd is in 9th. Even tho they are much closer in age than their grades. she would get texts from other kids warning her that they were here and she would be a smart mouth and say things like well I'm still in school and I'll deal with the little kids when i get home. It got to the point that I couldn't let her go anywhere alone. I would pick her up from the train station after school, take her in the morning. If she was gong to hang out with her girlfriends I would have to walk her there. eventually she had a confrontation with the girlfriend. where she pretty much told her they were just friends and that if she had a problem with that she needed to take it up with him and not her. I found out where the girl lived and told her if the threats to my dd didn't stop I would be having a word with her parents. My dd became busy in school and her and the boy kinda stopped hanging out. Until a few days ago. He started talking to her on FB and t hen last night he knocked on my door. Her final production of a school play is today and he is planning on coming. so on top of having to deal with dh getting all daddy mode about a boy hanging around his baby girl, I'm worried the drama with this kids girlfriend starting all over again.