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Update!! Idk what to think?!?! Found condoms in Dh car

The other day my Dh asked to drive my car to work because he had to pick up his boss because her car was broke and his car was a disaster. Well let him take it but I had my own meeting at work so I had to drive myself and ds to it. Well my ds moved something in the back seat, and there under it is a empty 3-pack of condoms. We have not used condoms in years. I asked him about it and he says they were prob one of his guy friends he has recently gave rides. I had him call his friends and none of them admitted to it but one said possibly but he normally buys a different brand. Idk what to do. I am just fustrated.

Update

I did some more digging like some of you told me to. He is not home and leaves his email logged on. So I decided to take a look. Well there are a ton on dating sites on there (which I have confronted him in the past but he says it is where he gives out his email for free porn). I have always just let this go. But over a year back I did find something in his email that made me questioned. It was a sent message to a personal ad on Facebook. I let that go too. But now there is a sent message from oct 24, 2012:
Hi,
Thanks for emailing me back. I would like to chat back and forth and see where it goes from there. How is your day today.

Then it looks like she replied:
Hi k
Whatya up to? Hope you're having a great Wednesday. I am so excited to finally have a couple days off work (well deserved)!!! It's so great to meet a sweet guy. I would love to meet up this weekend for a few drinks and see where things go. I live next to a couple fun spots if you are interested.
I have my contact info on my profile. So don't be shy give me a call :)
Wet kisses

Then he responds:
Hi j
I would live to meet up for drinks just let me know a date and time that would be good for u

Then she messages back:
Hi Kyle???
I tried emailing you but it came back undeliverable. So I hope you get this. :) do you have any plans for tonight. I would love to chat, meet up, whatever. I can't wait to get something started
I am off tomorrow. I should be online if you want to chat. Here is my new profile... I have a couple naughty pics on there for you.

He replies back:
Hi j
If u like to chat and get to know eachother my number is (his correct number)


I don't know what to do. I looked on my text and he was running late from work the day this last message went out and I had to work thirds that night. I don't even know how to go about the process of separating. I know that sounds stupid. But neither of us have anywhere else we can go. We both are on the mortgage. Ect.
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by on Jan. 21, 2013 at 9:40 AM
Replies (31-40):
mcsmom1
by Gold Member on Jan. 21, 2013 at 10:56 AM

C'mon, seriously?

His ass would be GONE.

periwinkle163
by Platinum Member on Jan. 21, 2013 at 10:58 AM

 Why would anyone just carry around an empty condom pack? This is super shady.

mathewss2490
by on Jan. 21, 2013 at 10:59 AM
According to another post wwyd if you found an empty box of condoms in your dh car...the OP states she wouldn't think he is cheating but masturbating in the car. Sarcasm my dear

Quoting Jukebox_Jenny:

I hope you're kidding...



Quoting mathewss2490:

He's probably masturbating in the car...jeeze...
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Jukebox_Jenny
by Member on Jan. 21, 2013 at 11:05 AM
That's why I said I hoped you were kidding. I wasn't sure but hope so. Lol. You never know with people on here. Haha!

Quoting mathewss2490:

According to another post wwyd if you found an empty box of condoms in your dh car...the OP states she wouldn't think he is cheating but masturbating in the car. Sarcasm my dear



Quoting Jukebox_Jenny:

I hope you're kidding...





Quoting mathewss2490:

He's probably masturbating in the car...jeeze...
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Crazylovingfam
by on Jan. 21, 2013 at 11:09 AM
You must be confusing me with someone else.


Quoting mathewss2490:

According to another post wwyd if you found an empty box of condoms in your dh car...the OP states she wouldn't think he is cheating but masturbating in the car. Sarcasm my dear



Quoting Jukebox_Jenny:

I hope you're kidding...





Quoting mathewss2490:

He's probably masturbating in the car...jeeze...

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laceyshuree
by on Jan. 21, 2013 at 11:17 AM

oh no... believe what you feel in your gut, its most likely right. Honestly no guy carries around a 3 pack of empty condoms in their pockets. Or at least not that I know of.. Watch him and be very careful. If I were you I would definitely think he is cheating with someone, That's just me though.slapping forehead

Crazylovingfam
by on Jan. 21, 2013 at 12:07 PM
Update
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LilAsMom526
by on Jan. 21, 2013 at 12:08 PM
I agree she should trust her instincts.

Quoting silverdawn99:

trust your guy instinct

would his friend really leave an empty box of condoms in his car?

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LilAsMom526
by on Jan. 21, 2013 at 12:14 PM
It could be his boss or old boss he picks up who happens to be a female. That makes the most sense.

Quoting Jeanna03:

well i think hes lieing my first thought about pickin up a female i dont think so. im sorry but it dosnt sound right. i hope u find out the truth. hope everything works out for you.

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Nickie76
by Silver Member on Jan. 21, 2013 at 2:07 PM
Simple... Make a six week plan. See a lawyer for a free consult... Start hoarding money switch accounts or create new ones in your name. Then GET OUT! I speak from experience. I was in a shelter w/ 4 kids under 5. You have only 2 choices... Leave and build from this OR stay and live your life as the never ending excuse... I'm sorry you are going through this. You have some tough choices. Just make sure you talk 2 a lawyer first and for your own sanity get a psychiatrist 2. You'll need it.
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