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If you don't know me and I don't expect many of you to know me but I was going with this guy for a year, I was 16 years old and got pregnant by him (my boyfriend Mike), well I missed my period and took the test and find out I'm pregnant then I let Mike know and he told me I'm crazy, I showed him the test and he still didn't believe me, I was scared because I still had to tell my mom and dad and he was acting like this. Well I went to my mom and I told her that I'm pregnant and I showed her the test, she really was shocked and it didn't bother her that I was pregnant, I thought she was going to start yelling at me. But anyways back to my boyfriend, I went to the doctor's after I told my mom and he finally was convinced that I was pregnant, a week later he dumped me because he didn't want to have a kid and I never heard from him since, at this time I was 10 weeks pregnant.

Well I see him and he was walking with his head down and looking away from me the entire time I was in sight of him, I didn't say nothing to him and he said nothing to me. I had my daughter (his bio daughter) with me and of course I'm pregnant with #2 with my current boyfriend. He has done nothing to help support Bree and I know he knew I was there he couldn't possibly have avoided me. I wanted to smack him in his head. I've been going with my current boyfriend since I was 16 weeks pregnant with Bree and this is our son I'm pregnant with now. This just makes me mad to see this jerk and know that he's Bree's real dad and he has to look away, she calls my boyfriend dada btw.

by on Jan. 21, 2013 at 3:58 PM
Replies (111-120):
camsmami
by on Jan. 22, 2013 at 1:56 PM
I actually have to agree here. You have no idea how much the two of you may come to differ.
My husband and i have always been different. He's very urban and city and Im a country girl all the way down to my Justin boots. It takes a strong couple to make it though life from a young age. I was 18 and my husband 20 when we met. 6 years later and we've been though more ups and downs then a rollercoaster at an amusement park.
I wish you solid luck. But what if something happens? I know we never want to think that way. But don't you want to be able to be a strong woman?
Ugh, *sigh* take it from someone not much olderthen you. I was 18 not too long ago. Wish i could go back cause Id change alot.


Quoting sampson200:

Hon, you're seriously acting like an 18 year old right now.

This gal has GOOD and solid advice.

From someone who hasn't been 18 in a looooong time, she's right; you guys will MOST LIKELY change a LOT in the next decade.

Sure, you might stick together.

But stats have shown that most teen relationships, esp one with as much baggage as you carry currently, don't last because the two people in it are forced to grow up.

But forced to grow up gives you little time to mature.

I wish you luck, but damn.......

Quoting bressmommy2012:

LOL I love how you are acting like you know what my boyfriend wants.



Quoting 3gr8tKids:

Quoting bressmommy2012:






Its called statistics.

You may want to find that motivation you said you were lacking for a number of reasons. As your boyfriend matures and starts to think about getting ahead, he is going to want an equal partner.

He's going to want someone who can have an intellectual conversation, maybe some social grace. Someone he can see himself with long term. Don't shoot the messenger. It won't change anything.

I'd be pissed if you were my daughter.





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hizwifie
by on Jan. 22, 2013 at 2:01 PM


And you really dont have any valid argument haha. It is cute to watch you get mad and try. I am done with you now though. You have nothing useful to say and frankly, you are getting boring.  Why dont you go find something useful to do? Or is this all you have to do with yourself today. The more you talk, the more stupid you seem. "Your ridiculous..your ghetto..." You are out of anything to say. lol. Its cute how pathetic you are. Really. Have a nice life. Smooches. 

Quoting camsmami:

*thumbs up*

You really are ridiculous!


Quoting hizwifie:

I got sloppy. We got married and got careless. It was our fault and I take responsibility for it. I also took precautions not to let it happen again until we were stable and able to handle more than one child. We both graduated from high school, I work and so does he. We have insurance and our kids never go with out. We dont rely on our families and have made a great life for ourselves. I dont know how that is ghetto, but hey what ever helps you sleep at night lol. As for the highly uneducated, we have already been over the fact I have more of an education than the OP and am working on furthering the education I do have. If you mean that I am bad at spelling, who cares? That has never held me back before and never will. If you mean on preventing pregnancy, the fact that I didn't get pregnant again until we wanted to and have not again proves I am. 



Quoting camsmami:

Did condoms work for you? Apparently you had a child young as well.



Once again. You're argument is invalid. Why? Because you're highly uneducated and becoming ghetto.




Quoting hizwifie:


Really? Damn, I could have sworn that in health class they said those things can help prevent pregnancy. Guess they were lying. I will have to let all my friends who have sex and use them and never get pregnant that it was all a lie. 



Quoting camsmami:

You cannot sit back and critique someone for.being uneducated when here you sit. Being you.





Condoms don't have a damn thing to do with anything.
I haven't used any type of BC in 5 years and don't have a child. Do you see me bashing Her?





Things happen, you either deal with it or you fall o your face. Seems to me she's doing her best to deal.





The best you could do for your own self worth is shut up. Because honestly the more you type. The more ignorance spews.








Quoting hizwifie:

Oh boo hoo. What, no real come backs so you decide to cratique my spelling? That is cute. Hey, I may not know how to spell but atleast I know how to use a condom, which deffinatly puts me one up on her. Oh and the part where even with a couple of spelling errors I mannaged to graduated high school. Oh, and having this little thing  called ambition. I guess those things dont matter. You are right, I should aspire to be a baby factory for every guy who treats me nice for 5 min. 




Quoting camsmami:

I do believe she means.

"I guess you had a birthday SINCE you got KNOCKED up"<







DIPLOMA*







br />
And you're bashing her for being uneducated?

*hands you a mirror*
Quoting hizwifie:


You were 17 when you got pregnant, i have seen you post that before. Guess you had a birthday sense you got nicked up. So glad you managed to reach the age most girls are graduating high school before you pushed out the second one. Oh and I got pregnant at 17. I had the good sense to get my high school deploma and I am taking college classes on and off when I get the time. I was also married before I got pregnant, sad that is such a novice idea these days. Making a mistake once is understandable, doing it twice is stupidity. Hope you grow up soon. 


Quoting bressmommy2012:

Good thing I'm not 17



Quoting hizwifie:

You are 17 and pregnant with your second child by a second guy. What the hell is wrong with you? Learn to keep your damn legs closed so you dont have 5 kids before you are even old enough to drink. I mean really. You are not even old enough to get an apartment on your own and you are nocked up for the second time in like 2 years? This is just sad....... 





















camsmami
by on Jan. 22, 2013 at 2:14 PM
Okay, Peaches. Shut up already.
You are no better then anyone in this thread. Obviously you need a damn reality check. Because this act of being above all. You're maturity level is showing. Its obvious that you have the IQ of a snail and don't know how to have a debate.
Congratulations to you for being edumacated!
I have plenty to say, just not to you.
Possibly you should turn off the computer and walk away. Because you seem to be highly bothered by OPs post and get awful defensive over it.
Go on now. Scat!


Quoting hizwifie:


And you really dont have any valid argument haha. It is cute to watch you get mad and try. I am done with you now though. You have nothing useful to say and frankly, you are getting boring.  Why dont you go find something useful to do? Or is this all you have to do with yourself today. The more you talk, the more stupid you seem. "Your ridiculous..your ghetto..." You are out of anything to say. lol. Its cute how pathetic you are. Really. Have a nice life. Smooches. 


Quoting camsmami:

*thumbs up*



You really are ridiculous!




Quoting hizwifie:

I got sloppy. We got married and got careless. It was our fault and I take responsibility for it. I also took precautions not to let it happen again until we were stable and able to handle more than one child. We both graduated from high school, I work and so does he. We have insurance and our kids never go with out. We dont rely on our families and have made a great life for ourselves. I dont know how that is ghetto, but hey what ever helps you sleep at night lol. As for the highly uneducated, we have already been over the fact I have more of an education than the OP and am working on furthering the education I do have. If you mean that I am bad at spelling, who cares? That has never held me back before and never will. If you mean on preventing pregnancy, the fact that I didn't get pregnant again until we wanted to and have not again proves I am. 




Quoting camsmami:

Did condoms work for you? Apparently you had a child young as well.





Once again. You're argument is invalid. Why? Because you're highly uneducated and becoming ghetto.






Quoting hizwifie:


Really? Damn, I could have sworn that in health class they said those things can help prevent pregnancy. Guess they were lying. I will have to let all my friends who have sex and use them and never get pregnant that it was all a lie. 




Quoting camsmami:

You cannot sit back and critique someone for.being uneducated when here you sit. Being you.







Condoms don't have a damn thing to do with anything.
I haven't used any type of BC in 5 years and don't have a child. Do you see me bashing Her?







Things happen, you either deal with it or you fall o your face. Seems to me she's doing her best to deal.







The best you could do for your own self worth is shut up. Because honestly the more you type. The more ignorance spews.











Quoting hizwifie:

Oh boo hoo. What, no real come backs so you decide to cratique my spelling? That is cute. Hey, I may not know how to spell but atleast I know how to use a condom, which deffinatly puts me one up on her. Oh and the part where even with a couple of spelling errors I mannaged to graduated high school. Oh, and having this little thing  called ambition. I guess those things dont matter. You are right, I should aspire to be a baby factory for every guy who treats me nice for 5 min. 





Quoting camsmami:

I do believe she means.

"I guess you had a birthday SINCE you got KNOCKED up"<









DIPLOMA*









br />
And you're bashing her for being uneducated?

*hands you a mirror*
Quoting hizwifie:


You were 17 when you got pregnant, i have seen you post that before. Guess you had a birthday sense you got nicked up. So glad you managed to reach the age most girls are graduating high school before you pushed out the second one. Oh and I got pregnant at 17. I had the good sense to get my high school deploma and I am taking college classes on and off when I get the time. I was also married before I got pregnant, sad that is such a novice idea these days. Making a mistake once is understandable, doing it twice is stupidity. Hope you grow up soon. 


Quoting bressmommy2012:

Good thing I'm not 17



Quoting hizwifie:

You are 17 and pregnant with your second child by a second guy. What the hell is wrong with you? Learn to keep your damn legs closed so you dont have 5 kids before you are even old enough to drink. I mean really. You are not even old enough to get an apartment on your own and you are nocked up for the second time in like 2 years? This is just sad....... 

























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tihone77
by on Jan. 22, 2013 at 2:15 PM

I didn't see this answered in the first 5 pages, maybe I missed it.  To my knowledge, the sperm donor has to give up his rights to her first.  My guess is that you would have to be married for your SO to adopt her.  And you can't get CS if sperm donors rights are terminated.


Quoting bressmommy2012:

I talked to my boyfriend about it and he told me that I should try to get the child support. He also said that he'd like to adopt her, do we need to be married for that though?



hizwifie
by on Jan. 22, 2013 at 2:31 PM


HAHAHAHAHA  All you can do is throw out lame ass insults. Debate? Sweetie, calling names and saying noting of merit or real value is not having a debate. Im sorry you are so stupid. Really. It must be hard. I mean, you dont know that condoms are important when trying to prevent pregnancy, you dont have useful come backs. You just get huffy and sound more and more pathetic with every reply while I sit here and laugh my ass of at you =). I mean my goodness. At least try and say something that makes since.  "Your so ghetto, your ridiculous, you have the IQ of a snail. " You, my dear, make a dead gold fish look like a genius. haha.Keep trying though sugar lumps. I love to watch you squirm. 

\. Its obvious that you have the IQ of a snail and don't know how to have a debate.


Quoting hizwifie:


And you really dont have any valid argument haha. It is cute to watch you get mad and try. I am done with you now though. You have nothing useful to say and frankly, you are getting boring.  Why dont you go find something useful to do? Or is this all you have to do with yourself today. The more you talk, the more stupid you seem. "Your ridiculous..your ghetto..." You are out of anything to say. lol. Its cute how pathetic you are. Really. Have a nice life. Smooches. 


Quoting camsmami:

*thumbs up*



You really are ridiculous!




Quoting hizwifie:

I got sloppy. We got married and got careless. It was our fault and I take responsibility for it. I also took precautions not to let it happen again until we were stable and able to handle more than one child. We both graduated from high school, I work and so does he. We have insurance and our kids never go with out. We dont rely on our families and have made a great life for ourselves. I dont know how that is ghetto, but hey what ever helps you sleep at night lol. As for the highly uneducated, we have already been over the fact I have more of an education than the OP and am working on furthering the education I do have. If you mean that I am bad at spelling, who cares? That has never held me back before and never will. If you mean on preventing pregnancy, the fact that I didn't get pregnant again until we wanted to and have not again proves I am. 




Quoting camsmami:

Did condoms work for you? Apparently you had a child young as well.





Once again. You're argument is invalid. Why? Because you're highly uneducated and becoming ghetto.






Quoting hizwifie:


Really? Damn, I could have sworn that in health class they said those things can help prevent pregnancy. Guess they were lying. I will have to let all my friends who have sex and use them and never get pregnant that it was all a lie. 




Quoting camsmami:

You cannot sit back and critique someone for.being uneducated when here you sit. Being you.







Condoms don't have a damn thing to do with anything.
I haven't used any type of BC in 5 years and don't have a child. Do you see me bashing Her?







Things happen, you either deal with it or you fall o your face. Seems to me she's doing her best to deal.







The best you could do for your own self worth is shut up. Because honestly the more you type. The more ignorance spews.











Quoting hizwifie:

Oh boo hoo. What, no real come backs so you decide to cratique my spelling? That is cute. Hey, I may not know how to spell but atleast I know how to use a condom, which deffinatly puts me one up on her. Oh and the part where even with a couple of spelling errors I mannaged to graduated high school. Oh, and having this little thing  called ambition. I guess those things dont matter. You are right, I should aspire to be a baby factory for every guy who treats me nice for 5 min. 





Quoting camsmami:

I do believe she means.

"I guess you had a birthday SINCE you got KNOCKED up"<









DIPLOMA*









br />
And you're bashing her for being uneducated?

*hands you a mirror*
Quoting hizwifie:


You were 17 when you got pregnant, i have seen you post that before. Guess you had a birthday sense you got nicked up. So glad you managed to reach the age most girls are graduating high school before you pushed out the second one. Oh and I got pregnant at 17. I had the good sense to get my high school deploma and I am taking college classes on and off when I get the time. I was also married before I got pregnant, sad that is such a novice idea these days. Making a mistake once is understandable, doing it twice is stupidity. Hope you grow up soon. 


Quoting bressmommy2012:

Good thing I'm not 17



Quoting hizwifie:

You are 17 and pregnant with your second child by a second guy. What the hell is wrong with you? Learn to keep your damn legs closed so you dont have 5 kids before you are even old enough to drink. I mean really. You are not even old enough to get an apartment on your own and you are nocked up for the second time in like 2 years? This is just sad....... 



























camsmami
by on Jan. 22, 2013 at 2:37 PM
The only thing that makes me squirm is my husband.
Further more, what is youre thing with condoms? As i said. My daughter is 5 and my husband and I have used no type of BC ever. Have you ever heard of natural family planning? Perhaps you should Google it. Some of us are actually educated on our bodies in more essence then to flap our jaws.
Trust me when I say. Huffy? Never, its called class. Something youre showing nothing of.
This gal made a simple post and here you come like a child of your age. No respect, no filter, nada.
If you're going to be on a website meant for advice. Use the dictionary and look up advice.
It doesn't mean to insult or belittle.
Doesn't feel so hot with someone breathing down your neck. Telling you how nothing you say or do is good enough.


Quoting hizwifie:


HAHAHAHAHA  All you can do is throw out lame ass insults. Debate? Sweetie, calling names and saying noting of merit or real value is not having a debate. Im sorry you are so stupid. Really. It must be hard. I mean, you dont know that condoms are important when trying to prevent pregnancy, you dont have useful come backs. You just get huffy and sound more and more pathetic with every reply while I sit here and laugh my ass of at you =). I mean my goodness. At least try and say something that makes since.  "Your so ghetto, your ridiculous, you have the IQ of a snail. " You, my dear, make a dead gold fish look like a genius. haha.Keep trying though sugar lumps. I love to watch you squirm. 


\. Its obvious that you have the IQ of a snail and don't know how to have a debate.




Quoting hizwifie:


And you really dont have any valid argument haha. It is cute to watch you get mad and try. I am done with you now though. You have nothing useful to say and frankly, you are getting boring.  Why dont you go find something useful to do? Or is this all you have to do with yourself today. The more you talk, the more stupid you seem. "Your ridiculous..your ghetto..." You are out of anything to say. lol. Its cute how pathetic you are. Really. Have a nice life. Smooches. 



Quoting camsmami:

*thumbs up*





You really are ridiculous!






Quoting hizwifie:

I got sloppy. We got married and got careless. It was our fault and I take responsibility for it. I also took precautions not to let it happen again until we were stable and able to handle more than one child. We both graduated from high school, I work and so does he. We have insurance and our kids never go with out. We dont rely on our families and have made a great life for ourselves. I dont know how that is ghetto, but hey what ever helps you sleep at night lol. As for the highly uneducated, we have already been over the fact I have more of an education than the OP and am working on furthering the education I do have. If you mean that I am bad at spelling, who cares? That has never held me back before and never will. If you mean on preventing pregnancy, the fact that I didn't get pregnant again until we wanted to and have not again proves I am. 





Quoting camsmami:

Did condoms work for you? Apparently you had a child young as well.







Once again. You're argument is invalid. Why? Because you're highly uneducated and becoming ghetto.








Quoting hizwifie:


Really? Damn, I could have sworn that in health class they said those things can help prevent pregnancy. Guess they were lying. I will have to let all my friends who have sex and use them and never get pregnant that it was all a lie. 





Quoting camsmami:

You cannot sit back and critique someone for.being uneducated when here you sit. Being you.









Condoms don't have a damn thing to do with anything.
I haven't used any type of BC in 5 years and don't have a child. Do you see me bashing Her?









Things happen, you either deal with it or you fall o your face. Seems to me she's doing her best to deal.









The best you could do for your own self worth is shut up. Because honestly the more you type. The more ignorance spews.














Quoting hizwifie:

Oh boo hoo. What, no real come backs so you decide to cratique my spelling? That is cute. Hey, I may not know how to spell but atleast I know how to use a condom, which deffinatly puts me one up on her. Oh and the part where even with a couple of spelling errors I mannaged to graduated high school. Oh, and having this little thing  called ambition. I guess those things dont matter. You are right, I should aspire to be a baby factory for every guy who treats me nice for 5 min. 






Quoting camsmami:

I do believe she means.

"I guess you had a birthday SINCE you got KNOCKED up"<











DIPLOMA*











br />
And you're bashing her for being uneducated?

*hands you a mirror*
Quoting hizwifie:


You were 17 when you got pregnant, i have seen you post that before. Guess you had a birthday sense you got nicked up. So glad you managed to reach the age most girls are graduating high school before you pushed out the second one. Oh and I got pregnant at 17. I had the good sense to get my high school deploma and I am taking college classes on and off when I get the time. I was also married before I got pregnant, sad that is such a novice idea these days. Making a mistake once is understandable, doing it twice is stupidity. Hope you grow up soon. 


Quoting bressmommy2012:

Good thing I'm not 17



Quoting hizwifie:

You are 17 and pregnant with your second child by a second guy. What the hell is wrong with you? Learn to keep your damn legs closed so you dont have 5 kids before you are even old enough to drink. I mean really. You are not even old enough to get an apartment on your own and you are nocked up for the second time in like 2 years? This is just sad....... 
































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SupermarketMama
by on Jan. 22, 2013 at 2:54 PM
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Glad to see I'm not the only person who gets bashed to death.....carry on :)
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bressmommy2012
by Cassandra on Jan. 22, 2013 at 3:17 PM

hizwifie, you have no idea how pathetic you sound, seriously. You might be older than me and might have graduated HS but I in no way am looking as sad and pathetic as you are. Nothing you say makes any sense, it's all about bashing people with you, I didn't ask for your drama in this post so take your drama somewhere else.

It looks to me that you are the uneducated one here. I can sure as hell take you to school anyday. I'm not acting immature and I didn't act immature when I saw my ex-boyfriend either, I ignored him like I should be doing with you. Have a nice life.

hizwifie
by on Jan. 22, 2013 at 3:19 PM

Child of my age? I am not a child, nor do I act like one. I doubt you would know class if it bit you in the face. None of your correspondences with me have shown class. It has been a poor attempt to show your ass or to make me feel bad about speaking my mind (which I don't by the way).  I know about natural family planning. After several bad instances with hormonal B.C that is what we started using as well as condoms. As for my thing with condoms, had the OP been using them in conjunction with another form of birth control she would not be in the position she is in. Though she has already said she does not know how to use them and doesn't need to because she is not a guy (ha!). Why should I have a filter? I say what I think, always. I didn't always, but I guess you could say my *give a fuck* is broken now that I am older. I find that I am much happier this way. Also, I am far from the first or last person to give less than positive feedback on this site. That is life. Not every thing is peaches and roses, and there are people like me who will be honest even when it is not what some one else wants to hear. Why? Because some times the truth sucks. She wants to be an adult and have babies, fine. Then I am not going to sugar coat it for her like a child. Her way of thinking is immature, her decisions obviously suck, and if it does not change she, her kids, and their fathers are all in for a rough life. What? Do you think we should all hold her hand and pat her on the back and lie and say it will be OK?  She needs to be ready for what is coming, and it is not pretty. Teen moms have a hard life, and she is making it harder by having another, not to mention the second baby's father has a 5 year old. If he does not already I am sure he will eventually have to pay child support, so he will be supporting 3 kids and she does nothing. I gave my advice. Get it together, get an education, get a job, and don't get pregnant again for a long time. Advice does not have to be nice. If you don't believe me, look it up in the dictionary =) 


Quoting camsmami:

The only thing that makes me squirm is my husband.
Further more, what is youre thing with condoms? As i said. My daughter is 5 and my husband and I have used no type of BC ever. Have you ever heard of natural family planning? Perhaps you should Google it. Some of us are actually educated on our bodies in more essence then to flap our jaws.
Trust me when I say. Huffy? Never, its called class. Something youre showing nothing of.
This gal made a simple post and here you come like a child of your age. No respect, no filter, nada.
If you're going to be on a website meant for advice. Use the dictionary and look up advice.
It doesn't mean to insult or belittle.
Doesn't feel so hot with someone breathing down your neck. Telling you how nothing you say or do is good enough.


Quoting hizwifie:


HAHAHAHAHA  All you can do is throw out lame ass insults. Debate? Sweetie, calling names and saying noting of merit or real value is not having a debate. Im sorry you are so stupid. Really. It must be hard. I mean, you dont know that condoms are important when trying to prevent pregnancy, you dont have useful come backs. You just get huffy and sound more and more pathetic with every reply while I sit here and laugh my ass of at you =). I mean my goodness. At least try and say something that makes since.  "Your so ghetto, your ridiculous, you have the IQ of a snail. " You, my dear, make a dead gold fish look like a genius. haha.Keep trying though sugar lumps. I love to watch you squirm. 


\. Its obvious that you have the IQ of a snail and don't know how to have a debate.




Quoting hizwifie:


And you really dont have any valid argument haha. It is cute to watch you get mad and try. I am done with you now though. You have nothing useful to say and frankly, you are getting boring.  Why dont you go find something useful to do? Or is this all you have to do with yourself today. The more you talk, the more stupid you seem. "Your ridiculous..your ghetto..." You are out of anything to say. lol. Its cute how pathetic you are. Really. Have a nice life. Smooches. 



Quoting camsmami:

*thumbs up*





You really are ridiculous!






Quoting hizwifie:

I got sloppy. We got married and got careless. It was our fault and I take responsibility for it. I also took precautions not to let it happen again until we were stable and able to handle more than one child. We both graduated from high school, I work and so does he. We have insurance and our kids never go with out. We dont rely on our families and have made a great life for ourselves. I dont know how that is ghetto, but hey what ever helps you sleep at night lol. As for the highly uneducated, we have already been over the fact I have more of an education than the OP and am working on furthering the education I do have. If you mean that I am bad at spelling, who cares? That has never held me back before and never will. If you mean on preventing pregnancy, the fact that I didn't get pregnant again until we wanted to and have not again proves I am. 





Quoting camsmami:

Did condoms work for you? Apparently you had a child young as well.







Once again. You're argument is invalid. Why? Because you're highly uneducated and becoming ghetto.








Quoting hizwifie:


Really? Damn, I could have sworn that in health class they said those things can help prevent pregnancy. Guess they were lying. I will have to let all my friends who have sex and use them and never get pregnant that it was all a lie. 





Quoting camsmami:

You cannot sit back and critique someone for.being uneducated when here you sit. Being you.









Condoms don't have a damn thing to do with anything.
I haven't used any type of BC in 5 years and don't have a child. Do you see me bashing Her?









Things happen, you either deal with it or you fall o your face. Seems to me she's doing her best to deal.









The best you could do for your own self worth is shut up. Because honestly the more you type. The more ignorance spews.














Quoting hizwifie:

Oh boo hoo. What, no real come backs so you decide to cratique my spelling? That is cute. Hey, I may not know how to spell but atleast I know how to use a condom, which deffinatly puts me one up on her. Oh and the part where even with a couple of spelling errors I mannaged to graduated high school. Oh, and having this little thing  called ambition. I guess those things dont matter. You are right, I should aspire to be a baby factory for every guy who treats me nice for 5 min. 






Quoting camsmami:

I do believe she means.

"I guess you had a birthday SINCE you got KNOCKED up"<











DIPLOMA*











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And you're bashing her for being uneducated?

*hands you a mirror*
Quoting hizwifie:


You were 17 when you got pregnant, i have seen you post that before. Guess you had a birthday sense you got nicked up. So glad you managed to reach the age most girls are graduating high school before you pushed out the second one. Oh and I got pregnant at 17. I had the good sense to get my high school deploma and I am taking college classes on and off when I get the time. I was also married before I got pregnant, sad that is such a novice idea these days. Making a mistake once is understandable, doing it twice is stupidity. Hope you grow up soon. 


Quoting bressmommy2012:

Good thing I'm not 17



Quoting hizwifie:

You are 17 and pregnant with your second child by a second guy. What the hell is wrong with you? Learn to keep your damn legs closed so you dont have 5 kids before you are even old enough to drink. I mean really. You are not even old enough to get an apartment on your own and you are nocked up for the second time in like 2 years? This is just sad....... 


































angeline
by on Jan. 22, 2013 at 3:24 PM
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I'm sorry :/

But idk, I don't think it's fair that guys don't get a choice. He obviously didn't want to parent, and I mean, can u blame him? Either way I'm sorry and good luck
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