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If you don't know me and I don't expect many of you to know me but I was going with this guy for a year, I was 16 years old and got pregnant by him (my boyfriend Mike), well I missed my period and took the test and find out I'm pregnant then I let Mike know and he told me I'm crazy, I showed him the test and he still didn't believe me, I was scared because I still had to tell my mom and dad and he was acting like this. Well I went to my mom and I told her that I'm pregnant and I showed her the test, she really was shocked and it didn't bother her that I was pregnant, I thought she was going to start yelling at me. But anyways back to my boyfriend, I went to the doctor's after I told my mom and he finally was convinced that I was pregnant, a week later he dumped me because he didn't want to have a kid and I never heard from him since, at this time I was 10 weeks pregnant.

Well I see him and he was walking with his head down and looking away from me the entire time I was in sight of him, I didn't say nothing to him and he said nothing to me. I had my daughter (his bio daughter) with me and of course I'm pregnant with #2 with my current boyfriend. He has done nothing to help support Bree and I know he knew I was there he couldn't possibly have avoided me. I wanted to smack him in his head. I've been going with my current boyfriend since I was 16 weeks pregnant with Bree and this is our son I'm pregnant with now. This just makes me mad to see this jerk and know that he's Bree's real dad and he has to look away, she calls my boyfriend dada btw.

by on Jan. 21, 2013 at 3:58 PM
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ChocolateJunky
by on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:30 AM
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Lol at "your whole life is gone"

Having children is so much better than partying all the time. Perhaps her teen pregnancy did her a favor by skipping over all of those mistakes and hard life lessons that a lot of people make in their late teen years. Just saying. I had my first at 19 and don't think my life could be any better than it is now as a young mother with 2 kids. My life is flourishing.

Quoting Willis_Mommie:

your 18 with 2 kids...i am sorry but you should really stop getting pregnant....your way too young....its kinda sad that your whole life is gone...i am sorry for being blunt

Quoting bressmommy2012:

I'm 18

 


Quoting Willis_Mommie:

how old are you now???

 


 


 

Des10ed2b
by Member on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:36 AM

me. just roll your eyes. your boyfriend is your daughters "real" dad. a real dad is the one who loves and supports a child. the other guy is just a bio dad or sperm donor. just shake it off, he isnt worth it, and one of these days it is going to occur to him what an asshole he was and that he missed out on so much of his own child's life. he will have to live the rest of his life knowing that it was HIS CHOICE to not be able to see her grow. that is a hell of a thing to think about on your death bed. 

bressmommy2012
by on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:57 AM
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Exactly. I couldn't be happier to be in the postion that I am in right now. I think I've grown up a lot where my former friends are all immature and partying, well I'm being a responsible mom and raising my daughter and soon my son, I'm pretty happy to be where I am at right now.


Quoting ChocolateJunky:


Lol at "your whole life is gone"

Having children is so much better than partying all the time. Perhaps her teen pregnancy did her a favor by skipping over all of those mistakes and hard life lessons that a lot of people make in their late teen years. Just saying. I had my first at 19 and don't think my life could be any better than it is now as a young mother with 2 kids. My life is flourishing.

Quoting Willis_Mommie:

your 18 with 2 kids...i am sorry but you should really stop getting pregnant....your way too young....its kinda sad that your whole life is gone...i am sorry for being blunt

Quoting bressmommy2012:

I'm 18



Quoting Willis_Mommie:

how old are you now???








Apr1l
by Platinum Member on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:59 AM
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GAHD Yes

Quoting sampson200:

STOP HAVING BABIES

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camsmami
by on Jan. 22, 2013 at 11:00 AM
Do you plan on college or getting educated? Did you graduate high school?

Quoting bressmommy2012:

Exactly. I couldn't be happier to be in the postion that I am in right now. I think I've grown up a lot where my former friends are all immature and partying, well I'm being a responsible mom and raising my daughter and soon my son, I'm pretty happy to be where I am at right now.



Quoting ChocolateJunky:



Lol at "your whole life is gone"


Having children is so much better than partying all the time. Perhaps her teen pregnancy did her a favor by skipping over all of those mistakes and hard life lessons that a lot of people make in their late teen years. Just saying. I had my first at 19 and don't think my life could be any better than it is now as a young mother with 2 kids. My life is flourishing.


Quoting Willis_Mommie:

your 18 with 2 kids...i am sorry but you should really stop getting pregnant....your way too young....its kinda sad that your whole life is gone...i am sorry for being blunt


Quoting bressmommy2012:


I'm 18





Quoting Willis_Mommie:

how old are you now???












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bressmommy2012
by on Jan. 22, 2013 at 11:00 AM

Yep and when she called him dada for the first time he got teary eyed and told me that he's really happy that he can support me and her. I hope he thought that yesterday, I hope he was thinking what a jerk he is for not being there for his daughter, oh well he'll never be considered her father anyways.


Quoting Des10ed2b:

me. just roll your eyes. your boyfriend is your daughters "real" dad. a real dad is the one who loves and supports a child. the other guy is just a bio dad or sperm donor. just shake it off, he isnt worth it, and one of these days it is going to occur to him what an asshole he was and that he missed out on so much of his own child's life. he will have to live the rest of his life knowing that it was HIS CHOICE to not be able to see her grow. that is a hell of a thing to think about on your death bed. 



bressmommy2012
by on Jan. 22, 2013 at 11:01 AM

No I didn't graduate high school, I don't know how I could go back now, never really planned on it though.


Quoting camsmami:

Do you plan on college or getting educated? Did you graduate high school?

Quoting bressmommy2012:

Exactly. I couldn't be happier to be in the postion that I am in right now. I think I've grown up a lot where my former friends are all immature and partying, well I'm being a responsible mom and raising my daughter and soon my son, I'm pretty happy to be where I am at right now.



Quoting ChocolateJunky:



Lol at "your whole life is gone"


Having children is so much better than partying all the time. Perhaps her teen pregnancy did her a favor by skipping over all of those mistakes and hard life lessons that a lot of people make in their late teen years. Just saying. I had my first at 19 and don't think my life could be any better than it is now as a young mother with 2 kids. My life is flourishing.


Quoting Willis_Mommie:

your 18 with 2 kids...i am sorry but you should really stop getting pregnant....your way too young....its kinda sad that your whole life is gone...i am sorry for being blunt


Quoting bressmommy2012:


I'm 18





Quoting Willis_Mommie:

how old are you now???














Kool_Aide
by on Jan. 22, 2013 at 11:02 AM
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You and your ex broke up at 10 weeks pregnant and you were in a new relationship with baby daddy #2 at 16 weeks pregnant??

Do you ever wonder if the path you chose is fucked?

sampson200
by on Jan. 22, 2013 at 11:02 AM

At 18 I wasn't partying.

I was going to college and planning my life without any baggage. Shaping my young self into something.

Good luck to you, but please, stop having babies until you're older.

If you've grown up a lot, I assume you're raising both children on your own, with a good job, no WIC, your own apartment....if not, you aren't grown.

I don't know why girls think this is a good life choice......doing this all on their own.

Quoting bressmommy2012:

Exactly. I couldn't be happier to be in the postion that I am in right now. I think I've grown up a lot where my former friends are all immature and partying, well I'm being a responsible mom and raising my daughter and soon my son, I'm pretty happy to be where I am at right now.


Quoting ChocolateJunky:


Lol at "your whole life is gone"

Having children is so much better than partying all the time. Perhaps her teen pregnancy did her a favor by skipping over all of those mistakes and hard life lessons that a lot of people make in their late teen years. Just saying. I had my first at 19 and don't think my life could be any better than it is now as a young mother with 2 kids. My life is flourishing.

Quoting Willis_Mommie:

your 18 with 2 kids...i am sorry but you should really stop getting pregnant....your way too young....its kinda sad that your whole life is gone...i am sorry for being blunt

Quoting bressmommy2012:

I'm 18



Quoting Willis_Mommie:

how old are you now???









MommyLehr
by Gold Member on Jan. 22, 2013 at 11:04 AM
You still could take him to court.

Quoting bressmommy2012:

I wish I could of nailed him for child support, he probably wouldn't pay it though. I've been going with my current boyfriend for almost a year and a half now and he's much much much more mature and a better person than any of my ex boyfriend's. Yep she might need something and she'll think that my current boyfriend is her real dad. 

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