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Update Hey ladies help me catch my Dh cheating ASAP!

I made a post the other day about emails of my husbands. I've denied everything. Now I am trying to find solid proof. Anyways I just text this number that was on the list of numbers he texted yesterday but there is no messages in his phone. The name came up George. I just said "hey". They text back "hey lol" with a sig that says "mrs jones" with hearts. I don't know what to say now.


Update 11/24 11pm

I am just getting on here updating a little. I have not read all the replies nor am I going to tonight. I am out of state in a hotel with my son to think about things. We will be going to the children's museum tomorrow. He texted me today and told me he needed to talk to me. I was in a meeting but told him I would not be talking to him if he couldn't give me the respect to tell me the truth and after 6 years I deserve that. Well we met at the house. He said the condoms were truely not his (idk whether this is true or not but he HATES condoms I can tell you that much). He said the emails were his but he never actually met up with the person. He said it ended up being a scam when she text him a webcam address and he spent money on it. He said lindsey he put her number under a different name because he was afraid I would get jealous he was talking to another girl. He said all of the conversations he had with her related to work. He said her husband came up to his work today thinking the same thing I was/am because I mentioned condoms. He said his name was also under a different name in her phone. I asked him what made him want to come clean all of a sudden. He told me it was because he deleted his email account/text so I wouldn't have anything on him, and he knew I had him when he got a email at work his email had been re-activated and I already told him earlier I was having a mutual friend come over later to find out the ip address the emails were sent from (although I figured it out without said friend). I still don't know what to do. He did apologize. I just don't want to make a decision without thinking. I love him very much and I want my son to have his father in his life so I can't just think of myself. I also don't want to bring this up to family because it is embarrassing. I also at the same time do not want to worry every minute who he is talking to, who he is sleeping with, where he is ect. I also don't want to deal with him ever cheating again (yes his intentions were cheating so I see it as cheating). I guess I will just try to think about everything tonight and try to sleep and enjoy my time with my son.
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by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 10:42 PM
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alexmommy2209
by Bronze Member on Jan. 23, 2013 at 10:51 PM
Bump
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MamaOf3091011
by Bronze Member on Jan. 23, 2013 at 10:52 PM
I'll call! What's your dh's name ? I can find out something Like her name and you can go from there.
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eve210
by Silver Member on Jan. 23, 2013 at 10:53 PM
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Cafemom has great investigators :) gl
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emilysmom8
by Dawn on Jan. 23, 2013 at 10:53 PM
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 You can call it (not from your DH phone though) and when the person answers just make up a name and say "Hi can I talk to Melissa" they will say "Sorry wrong number" say "sorry" and hang up. This way you will hear if its a guy or a girl..

Quoting Crazylovingfam:

Should I call it. I dont want to bring it up to family or friends that I suspect this. It is embarrassing


Quoting emilysmom8:

have someone call the number and see who answers


 

Paperfishies
by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 10:53 PM
Just say...hey, what are you up to?
Are you texting form your husbands phone?
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Crazylovingfam
by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 10:55 PM
Okay she/he just text back lol not much cleaning and watching tv u? I don't know what to say and I am shaking because I am getting pissed.
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Crazylovingfam
by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 10:55 PM
Yes I am text from his phone


Quoting Paperfishies:

Just say...hey, what are you up to?

Are you texting form your husbands phone?

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Crazylovingfam
by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 10:57 PM
That's why I came here plus I feel like it is the only people I can talk to since I am so embarrassed over it.


Quoting eve210:

Cafemom has great investigators :) gl

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frndlyfn
by Emerald Member on Jan. 23, 2013 at 10:57 PM

Why not just ask how they know your husband? Pretty big sign that this is not a healthy relationship if you cant be upfront with the person you are texting with from his phone among other signs.

Kitschy
by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 10:57 PM
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