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Update Hey ladies help me catch my Dh cheating ASAP!

I made a post the other day about emails of my husbands. I've denied everything. Now I am trying to find solid proof. Anyways I just text this number that was on the list of numbers he texted yesterday but there is no messages in his phone. The name came up George. I just said "hey". They text back "hey lol" with a sig that says "mrs jones" with hearts. I don't know what to say now.


Update 11/24 11pm

I am just getting on here updating a little. I have not read all the replies nor am I going to tonight. I am out of state in a hotel with my son to think about things. We will be going to the children's museum tomorrow. He texted me today and told me he needed to talk to me. I was in a meeting but told him I would not be talking to him if he couldn't give me the respect to tell me the truth and after 6 years I deserve that. Well we met at the house. He said the condoms were truely not his (idk whether this is true or not but he HATES condoms I can tell you that much). He said the emails were his but he never actually met up with the person. He said it ended up being a scam when she text him a webcam address and he spent money on it. He said lindsey he put her number under a different name because he was afraid I would get jealous he was talking to another girl. He said all of the conversations he had with her related to work. He said her husband came up to his work today thinking the same thing I was/am because I mentioned condoms. He said his name was also under a different name in her phone. I asked him what made him want to come clean all of a sudden. He told me it was because he deleted his email account/text so I wouldn't have anything on him, and he knew I had him when he got a email at work his email had been re-activated and I already told him earlier I was having a mutual friend come over later to find out the ip address the emails were sent from (although I figured it out without said friend). I still don't know what to do. He did apologize. I just don't want to make a decision without thinking. I love him very much and I want my son to have his father in his life so I can't just think of myself. I also don't want to bring this up to family because it is embarrassing. I also at the same time do not want to worry every minute who he is talking to, who he is sleeping with, where he is ect. I also don't want to deal with him ever cheating again (yes his intentions were cheating so I see it as cheating). I guess I will just try to think about everything tonight and try to sleep and enjoy my time with my son.
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by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 10:42 PM
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MissJamie12
by on Jan. 24, 2013 at 3:09 PM

I personally would screw with them a little bit, pretend you're him for as long as you can, just to figure out what the relationship between them may be. And I'm not talking about doing this for days, just a couple texts back and forth using the right language and you'll know.....

hope2bsoon
by Silver Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 3:14 PM

 I'm sorry this is happening to you....no one diserves this.

moonlitnitz
by Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 3:19 PM
Bumping new spot
nerdymom28
by Silver Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 3:34 PM
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nerdymom28
by Silver Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 3:42 PM

 I've been there, and here's what I did:

I called the chick. From his phone. With him right there. On speaker. She came clean and told me everything. Once I hung up with her, he had no choice but to own up to it. The "oh shit" look on his face said it all though, so he really didn't need to say a word.

Basherte
by Silver Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 4:05 PM

https://www.facebook.com/lindseyj3

When I googled that name. this is the facebook account that came up.


RainyDayLazy
by on Jan. 24, 2013 at 4:13 PM
Have you ever listened to the song Me and Mrs. Jones? It's a song about a couple cheating on their spouses.

"Me and Mrs Jones, we got a thing going on
We both know that it's wrong
But it's much too strong to let it cool down now"
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Basherte
by Silver Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 4:32 PM

I'm waiting on an update.



j3ssi
by on Jan. 24, 2013 at 4:41 PM
That's horrible. .I just google searched that song. I hope all she's well.
BraydensMama163
by Gold Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 4:43 PM
If he has a woman's name in phone as George its because its to not raise suspicion. Old and dumb trick.
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