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Update Hey ladies help me catch my Dh cheating ASAP!

I made a post the other day about emails of my husbands. I've denied everything. Now I am trying to find solid proof. Anyways I just text this number that was on the list of numbers he texted yesterday but there is no messages in his phone. The name came up George. I just said "hey". They text back "hey lol" with a sig that says "mrs jones" with hearts. I don't know what to say now.


Update 11/24 11pm

I am just getting on here updating a little. I have not read all the replies nor am I going to tonight. I am out of state in a hotel with my son to think about things. We will be going to the children's museum tomorrow. He texted me today and told me he needed to talk to me. I was in a meeting but told him I would not be talking to him if he couldn't give me the respect to tell me the truth and after 6 years I deserve that. Well we met at the house. He said the condoms were truely not his (idk whether this is true or not but he HATES condoms I can tell you that much). He said the emails were his but he never actually met up with the person. He said it ended up being a scam when she text him a webcam address and he spent money on it. He said lindsey he put her number under a different name because he was afraid I would get jealous he was talking to another girl. He said all of the conversations he had with her related to work. He said her husband came up to his work today thinking the same thing I was/am because I mentioned condoms. He said his name was also under a different name in her phone. I asked him what made him want to come clean all of a sudden. He told me it was because he deleted his email account/text so I wouldn't have anything on him, and he knew I had him when he got a email at work his email had been re-activated and I already told him earlier I was having a mutual friend come over later to find out the ip address the emails were sent from (although I figured it out without said friend). I still don't know what to do. He did apologize. I just don't want to make a decision without thinking. I love him very much and I want my son to have his father in his life so I can't just think of myself. I also don't want to bring this up to family because it is embarrassing. I also at the same time do not want to worry every minute who he is talking to, who he is sleeping with, where he is ect. I also don't want to deal with him ever cheating again (yes his intentions were cheating so I see it as cheating). I guess I will just try to think about everything tonight and try to sleep and enjoy my time with my son.
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by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 10:42 PM
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caseyskitten
by Bronze Member on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:07 PM
Sorry :-( good luck
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Crazylovingfam
by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:08 PM
Well I just text her. "hey do you want to go out for drinks?" and she said "sure I'll figure out something"


Quoting Kitschy:

did you google search the number first? Lots of people have their numbers on their FB page. It will come up without you calling.


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Mrsfarr
by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:09 PM
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I'd give the phone to my husband and tell him Lindsey Jones wants to know what he's up to and he should tell her he's packing a bag because he's not staying here.
But my husband and I agreed that if there was infidelity, we wouldn't stay together.
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Kitschy
by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:10 PM
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Ask her to send a pic to tide you over. If she sends boobs he's cheating, if she texts back WTF then tell her you are sorry and you are drunk

Quoting Crazylovingfam:

Well I just text her. "hey do you want to go out for drinks?" and she said "sure I'll figure out something"


Quoting Kitschy:

did you google search the number first? Lots of people have their numbers on their FB page. It will come up without you calling.



A.J.s_mommy
by Ruby Member on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:10 PM
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Set up a time and meet her there. Bring your husband with you.

Quoting Crazylovingfam:

Well I just text her. "hey do you want to go out for drinks?" and she said "sure I'll figure out something"




Quoting Kitschy:

did you google search the number first? Lots of people have their numbers on their FB page. It will come up without you calling.


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Beauty91805
by Silver Member on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:10 PM
If your using his phone, pretend to be him. Hey. How are you doing? See where that takes you. If you notice any type of flirtacious remarks, then take it a step further. Must play the game right!
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Crazylovingfam
by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:11 PM
Now she said. "what time u come in tomorrow bab? Is u or crystal first in lol (crystal is his boss)
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Beauty91805
by Silver Member on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:12 PM
So it's a co worker most likely


Quoting Crazylovingfam:

Now she said. "what time u come in tomorrow bab? Is u or crystal first in lol (crystal is his boss)

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Kitschy
by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:12 PM


Quoting Crazylovingfam:

Now she said. "what time u come in tomorrow bab? Is u or crystal first in lol (crystal is his boss)

okay so it's someone he works with. It doesn't mean he's cheating.....yet.


A.J.s_mommy
by Ruby Member on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:12 PM
So its someone he works with?

Quoting Crazylovingfam:

Now she said. "what time u come in tomorrow bab? Is u or crystal first in lol (crystal is his boss)
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