Normally it's our tone to each other and how we are speaking to each other lol. it's never anything big for the most part.
We try not to fight, but when we do it is normally over the kids
We've never fought at all and we've been together for about 2 years now. I never had a single fight with the guy I dated before him either and we were together a year and a half. There were so many things that my kids fathers and I fought about though, you name it we fought about it. It's been such a relief and breath of fresh air to find someone that I am so equal to that there's nothing for us to argue about. I know we'll probably fight eventually but I think that it will take a long time and will be a very rare occasion.
I'm usually bitching to him about something or somethings he has not done for a long time. Our fights sre pretty one sided lol... and I win cause I'm right!
I can relate, my husband was raised in a very firm household, where alot of yelling took place. ( Whip now.. ask questions later) My parents talked to me and then punished.. not the other way around. We normally fight about finances.. Right now things are a little hard.. but we always work through it. and we try to never fight infront of our kids.. My parents fought infront of us.. and it just makes me uncomfortable doing that... I would just sit down and talk to him about it.. you have to agree to disagree.. sometimes he's right and you have to admit it.. ( which SUCKS .. i know ) lol But he admits when I'm right too.. I guess thats why we work good together.. GOOD LUCK!
Quoting kimberly161:When you and your so argue what is it usually about? Our arguments are usually about discipline. He is more firm, he thinks I am sometimes too gental.
We don't "fight" because to do that the other person would have to participate and my husband does not lol. I bitch and yell about his laziness mainly, that's really it.
Right now, it's about how much he is working. But we don't argue much. He doesn't have to work so much, but he feels obligated to help cover shifts. He will change that before the new schedule is made, so I won't have to deal with it much longer. He knows better than to test me...lol
We fight about money constantly. And I always stay on him about picking up after himself. It would be different if I stayed at home, I'd wait on him hand and foot but I work 12 hour shifts several days a week and housekeeping with no help and a 3 year old is impossible!
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