I need help picking a smaller gun for carry around the house. My daily conceal carry SR9C, is cumbersome around the house. I want something to go in a flash-bang holster. Thinking a Bersa Thunder in in 9 mil (that is what DH suggested instead of the 308)... Just wanted some opinions...: ) Does the Bersa Thunder in a 9 have a lot of recoil or is it manageable? Any other smaller guns you would recommend? I really do want to stay with a 9 mil. Any recommendations for a good flash bang holster?