I lost my mom Monday, Where do I turn? PIOG EDIT WE DID IT!
Hello All..I woke up monday morning to find my dear mother had passed away in her sleep. She was perfectly fine on sunday at our super bowl party, and went to sleep about 1am and never woke upmonday :( She was only 46, the autopsy did not show anything so I am still lost on what happened to my mom..She was my best friend!! I still replay walking into the room and touching her back, my heart is completely broken. Im only 24, I thought I had so many more years with her :(
She did not have any plans set, or life insurance in place. So that left me and my sister to cover it all. I have called our local trustee and was told they "might" help, but the funeral home told us not to bother, they never have funds and never keep their promises, I called medicaid but they wont help bc she applied on the 31st and it wasnt approved yet, I asked SS and they told me bc I am not a minor and she does not have a husband, they can not help. I have raised $1000 so far and have $1000 left to bring my moms ashes home. I had to cremate bc burial was $11,000 and I was unable to afford that. I am not here asking for anything but a direction to go, Is there someone/somewhere I missed? Any other info would be great, after all of this, all I want is to have her home with her family where she can rest in peace. Thank you
Please, keep the negative comments out of this, I have dealt with alot and am not asking for anything more than advice here.thank you all
Sorry I forgot to add, I have asked fb friends and family and have gotten $115, I put out a donations box at the service ( our church did it for free) so we have raised half the funds that way. I come from a very poor family unfortunatly so we are left on our own on this. We have asked everyone we can think of. Thank you everyone for all your kind words, It means alot!!
I got the suggestion from some of you that there was a website that you make make a wish on...SO I made the page, not expecting it to work since we owed so much and ppl are also going through hard time..BUT...someone called in yesterday and made an anon payment for the WHOLE BALANCE!!! I can not thank the person enough! Who ever it was. has the kindest heart! My sister and I are just so happy to be able to bring my mom home, where she can rest in peace with all her grandkids! Thank you everyone for all the suggestions..we did it!!