Update to school calling CPS ! Sorry so long.
I talked to my dd yesterday and she said she never said she had asthma. She said during mighty milers sometimes she gets out of breath eventually and she says she stops because she doesnt want an asthma attack because thats how you get asthma you have attacks. Which actually makes sense for her. When she first had breathing trouble where she ended up on meds for a week. She was little at the time. It was quite traumatic for her. The dr explained to me that she basically had an asthma attack. But that having one doesnt mean she as asthma its when it happens a 2nd or 3rd time that is when its asthma. I never explained it to her otherwise so how could she know. As for the glasses she never said they were hers but that she knew everyone thought they were and she didn't correct them. She didn't explain that they were not hers either when she said I wouldn't let her wear them. I'm just glad its all out in the open and the case can get closed. I'm stopping by her Dr's office today to get a note that she doesn't have asthma.
Well I just got back from a meeting @ school. I decided my best bet was to go in there calmly and not screaming at people. They started with their original story that my dd had an odor of cat to her. The lady from CPS asked if the day the report was made if tori had the odor and they started to say Yes but then the asst principal corrected them and said they had reports from some of the kids. After the lady from CPS pointed out that she was at my house when tori got home from school and there was no odor they started to get honest. According to their story now they don't think I'm a very good parent and that they felt they couldn't call for the reasons they wanted to so they hoped that if they called with another issue they felt was warranted that cps would investigate and find some issues. I sat there with my mouth hanging open for most of the meeting. First I'm a bitch and I know it and they were polite when saying I was a bitch. But most of their issues were things that were sooo stupid. The things they mentioned was My dd does not have a bedtime. It seems tori likes to brag about not having a bedtime and she loves to mention that she can stay up as late as she wants. which not having a specific bedtime is true. But if she's up at 9pm then she's up late. she's usually asleep on her own rather early. Another thing is tori mentioned once that she's never been to a dentist. They did notify me once after tori had said it. But I wasn't there when she said it or know the circumstances. When i had asked her about it she said she meant she's never had a filling or a cavity. when the school let me know of this i just laughed it off. They also think she has asthma and that I'm ignoring it. Which is something they've said numerous times to me but she doesn't have asthma. She likes to say she does because of a chest cold she had years ago and the Dr gave her a pump. Then back in October she had another cold with chest congestion and the Dr gave her a breathing treatment. When she doesn't feel like running in gym she pulls the I have asthma card. they've mentioned to me on many occasions and I always tell them the same thing she doesn't have asthma. I didn't think i needed to send her with a Dr's note saying she doesn't have asthma. They also think that she needs glasses and I won't let her wear glasses. She's failed the school eye test twice. both times they sent me home forms telling me she failed and to get her checked by an eye doctor. Which I did. She doesn't need glasses. Didn't think to send back forms saying she doesn't need glasses. Dh has a pair of reading glasses he bought that were a bit girly. When he got a 2nd pair not so girly he put the girly ones away in a draw. Well tori found them and started sneaking them to school. Told everyone they were hers. She was wearing them for over a week before i found them in her bookbag and took them away from her. She went to school the next day and when she was asked where her glasses were she told them Mommy won't let me wear them. There was several other stupid things like that. I do now believe she may of went to school one day and had a smell of cat on her. So I've decided she wont' wear her uniform anymore. Those are the only clothes i lay out for her at night and anything that the cat had a chance to pee on. so just to make sure she'll wear regular clothes. CPS is going to close out the case. I signed the medical form so that CPS can check that she doesnt have asthma and that she doesnt need glasses.