Dh and I have started marriage counseling. Our counselor told him today that he should make an effort to spend time with me and that we need to do things together as a family and as a couple. He agreed in front of her.
I texted him at work today and told him I was going to buy a bottle of wine and we could talk when I got home and maybe watch a movie. He agreed that we would do this and I also told him was going to get our girls something small for V Day. I got them each a stuffed animal for $3 each, nothing much b/c I'm not big into V Day and they are too young to understand it.
He texted me at 10pm and told me to wake him up if he was asleep when I got home, so I did. He then got mad that I got our girls something and told me he was not coming out the room and was going back to sleep.
I feel like I am just in his way or that I am just a paycheck for him and he only needs me when he has 'needs' that need to be met.
Am I looking into this too much or would you be upset if your DH did this to you? By the way, he does this every night. I am always ignored. He would rather play video games or sleep that be around me.
***Thank you ladies for helping feel like I am not going crazy with my emotions. He came to me, without me prompting him, and apologized. I am still going to keep working on trying to get him to do stuff with me. We both have a lot of bad habits to break and so I hope he will keep going with me to counseling to get this resolved.