My mother has been seeing a married man for about 2 years now. He is military and would take my mom on trips with him for the military. My sister and I have been trying to get her to believe how wrong she is and she always tries to justify it. She puts this man's wife down and says she's a bad wife. I'm pretty sure that is just what this guy is saying to get my mother to be with him. Anyway, he works with my aunt (they are stationed in the same place) and she was talking about how her teenage daughter used to wear my mother's clothes but now she's to big because my mom is super tiny (she really is) and has small boobs (she does) and this man called and told my mother that my aunt was putting her down and how dare she do it in front of his superiors. I said mom #1 they don't know who you are. he is married. he never talks about you. they only know HIS WIFE. remember? he's married!! and #2 your sister was meaning to talk about how big her daughter has gotten. and just passed over your being tiny. whatever though, she went on and on about how wrong my aunt is and how they are never talking again, and more about this man. I finally got sick of it and i said i don't want to hear about you being a homewrecker and hung up the phone.
Apparently my sister got sick of it too cause she sent his wife a message on facebook basically saying that her husband is cheating on her and she's so sorry but she deserved to know and how if she wants we will gather evidence for her to get him in trouble with the Army or atleast benefits for their divorce if she wants or if she wants nothing else will be said and they can fix things or whatever. She said she would support his wife's decision. She even gave her my mom's phone # so she could find it on the phone records and his phone. I feel so bad for this woman cause I have seen her profile and she is always posting family pictures and pictures of him and her together. They have been married for 20 years!! She had no idea.. I'm so mad at my mom mostly because her ex husband cheated on her. She was so upset she made herself sick. Now she's doing it to another woman?? How could you do that? But i'm not sure if my sister did the right thing either.. I mean morally yes i believe she did because the woman does deserve to know but its really gonna hurt and it could get nasty with my family too.