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Invited to a jewelry & handbag party

Posted by on Mar. 15, 2013 at 9:09 AM
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I was invited to a jewelry and handbag party by a good friend. I'd love to go and see her however, I am not interested in buying anything. I've never been to a party like that before, am I obligated to buy something? I don't want to look cheap but don't care to buy something that I don't want just because. What is the etiquette on something like this?
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lucky2Beeme
by Platinum Member on Mar. 15, 2013 at 9:14 AM

No you do not have to buy.

CharlotteRose
by Bronze Member on Mar. 15, 2013 at 9:18 AM

 


Quoting lucky2Beeme:

No you do not have to buy.


 

beadingmom17
by Rachel on Mar. 15, 2013 at 9:19 AM
You're not obligated but they sure do make you feel like you are! I hate those parties.
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JulyBabies
by Platinum Member on Mar. 15, 2013 at 9:21 AM

 


Quoting beadingmom17:

You're not obligated but they sure do make you feel like you are! I hate those parties.


haha I was wondering if it was high pressure sales lol

TableforSeven
by Judy on Mar. 15, 2013 at 9:21 AM

You don't HAVE to buy.  But many of the sales-people at these types of parties are pushy.  Tell your friend up-front that you plan to come but will NOT be buying anything.

coolmommy2x
by Ruby Member on Mar. 15, 2013 at 9:23 AM
You don't have to buy anything if you don't want to.
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OneToughMami
by Silver Member on Mar. 15, 2013 at 9:24 AM

They might have something that you end up buying :-/ I was like that too

beadingmom17
by Rachel on Mar. 15, 2013 at 9:27 AM
It's a combo of peer pressure and slightly pushy sales people. You keep hearing "You don't have to buy anything" but then in the same breath it's like "But your host will earn xyz if you buy $x.xx of stuff!"

Quoting JulyBabies:

 




Quoting beadingmom17:

You're not obligated but they sure do make you feel like you are! I hate those parties.



haha I was wondering if it was high pressure sales lol

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3kidz123
by Member on Mar. 15, 2013 at 9:29 AM

You don't have to buy, not everyone at those parties shops, some just go to look and have fun :)

Mazie0723
by Platinum Member on Mar. 15, 2013 at 9:31 AM
I've never gone to that type but I have been to several sex toy parties and have never bought anything.
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