This story is really long so im just going to make it short and cut to my questions. If you want to know more you can ask. I have a SD thats about to be 12. SD mother LOST CUSTODY of her but we were in Germany (due to the Army) at the time and NOT NOTIFED AT ALL. We found out about this because the lady that worked in the office at the court house called and told my mother-in-law. When they handed custody over to her grandparents (not my in-laws) they did not change the child support. We had money saved up to go to court when we got back but ended up spending it when we moved back to the states because things didn't go like planned and they didn't have a house ready for us. We spent it on car rentals and hotel rooms (so not just spent it because we wanted to)...When we went on leave (back to Arkansas) we stopped at the court house and asked about the child support and they said we had to get a lawyer and get it changed. We want to go to court for custody but don't have the money. We at the very least want to get the child support changed because her grandparents flat out told us that the mother keeps the $400 a month....So does anyone know about how much this would cost and if it will be hard to do? My husband is about to deploy again so it will all be left on me plus my own 3 kids.
Sorry...its still longer then i wanted it to be.
on Mar. 15, 2013 at 5:39 PM