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what should I do???

Posted by on Mar. 20, 2013 at 1:08 PM
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Ok ladies I need advice...

For one year I have been doing shift supervisor position in hopes to get into training for restaurant management. I like aspects of the job, but I am feeling horribly used. They have not sent me to actual management training, I don't get parking benefits, I took a paycut and i'm working more hours. I'm going to miss most of my kids baseball games. My hours suck. 11-8. That means I see my kids for the morning shuffle and kiss them goodnight, that's it. Now they want me to move to a different location and work appx 50+ hours a week doing a management job but workout the pay and bonuses of a real manager.
I miss my kids and my husband. I made more $$$ working less hours before and didn't have to bring my work home with me.

My question is, do I stick with it, or go back to bartending and serving and seeing my kids?

Sorry so long!!!
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dee1603
by on Mar. 20, 2013 at 1:09 PM
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My family comes first. Use that advice. The decision should be easy
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DBKels
by on Mar. 20, 2013 at 1:12 PM
That is definitely what i'm leading towards. I justhate disappointing people.
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T-Benner
by on Mar. 20, 2013 at 1:15 PM
I would go back to bartending and serving. You made more money worked less hours and most importantly you was with your family more. Seems like that's better all the way around
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m0m23b0ys458
by Silver Member on Mar. 20, 2013 at 1:16 PM

Ultimately,your family will always be there.Not necessarily so with a job.I would worry more about disappointing my family than a job.Good luck with whatever you decide.

Quoting DBKels:

That is definitely what i'm leading towards. I justhate disappointing people.


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DBKels
by on Mar. 20, 2013 at 1:21 PM
Thank you!!!! Now, how do I tell my manager?????
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DBKels
by on Mar. 20, 2013 at 1:49 PM
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DBKels
by on Mar. 20, 2013 at 3:11 PM
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