He had the kids this weekend as it was his weekend to have them so he tells our 9 year old son that I'm nothing but a fat lazy bitch and I need to lose weight and clean up the house, then he told him that he wants to get full custody of him and have him all the time. I was so pissed at him when I heard this I got right up in his face and smacked him and told the kids to go somewhere else for now. How can he say such a thing to a 9 year old kid? I don't get it, what the hell is wrong with him? I'm so angry at him right now for what he did I don't know what to do. I told him to get out of my sight after I smacked him and he took off, squeeled his tires and punched it all the way to the corner about a quarter of a mile away. What a jerk, I'm so much happier now without him I can't believe it. When I was with him I was so miserable and depressed. I went and got help and got rid of him and moved back with my parents for awhile. Now I'm with a new guy and we have a child together already and I love it, I couldn't be happier with my new guy. But my ex just thinking about him makes me want to puke.