My SO and i have been together 2 years and lived together for a year. I have a 6 yo who has delays and he has a neices who's 5 and also a brother who is 8. On good Friday we decided to have his neice stay over and she and my son could play since they have the day off from school. His mother found out that we had his neice over and not his bother and started giving him shit for it. SO and I had talked about having his brother sleep over during April vacation because the 3 kids is too much for me and his brother is very whiney when he's not around. I don't know why people have to lay guilt trips on other people for not taking both kids... If I don't feel comfortable or don't want to take both kids at the same time I don't have to. Sorry to vent but she does this shit a lot and it gets on my nerves. It's like she's always keeping score! We have taken both kids overnight before and then gone out and done stuff with all 3 kids the next day and it was a lot with the two of us let alone just me by myself.
We take turns having them over I just cant have them both over when it's just me and honestly I can't handle his brother alone. He complains a lot and doesn't want to do "kid stuff" with the other two.
Does anyone else have experience with this?