i wanted to get dds done when she was a baby but then thought about it and felt it was mean in a sense. wouldnt that hurt the baby? my now xdh said we would get hers done when she decided which seems fair. however i havea cousin who usually gets hers done within the first few months of the baby being done. not sure what im having yet but if its a girl im considering the ear piercing just not sure if im confortable with it...so here i am asking...when did you decide to get dds? and what do you think is a suitable age?