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I need Opinions please Baby now or Baby later? *** POLL ***

Posted by on Apr. 5, 2013 at 11:40 PM
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Question: When?

Options:

Now - before wedding

Later- After wedding

Keep trying till a certain month then wait?

Other?


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Total Votes: 124

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Hey ladies!

So after being together about 3 years and me and my SO are getting married!!! And we are more than ready to add a baby to the family!

My delehma, Our wedding is 16 months away. If we got pregnant immediatly... lets say within a month... I would deliever about 6 month before the wedding. 

Our other two children are almost 3 and almost 5 years old. They can easily stay with relatives for the honeymoon.

I can tell you this we know we are ready for a baby, but we dont know when..... Thoughts???

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by Emerald Member on Apr. 6, 2013 at 12:41 AM

I voted after the wedding :)

Sweetest_Britt
by on Apr. 6, 2013 at 12:55 AM
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Later, after the wedding. Whats the rush? : )

LiveLoveLaugh13
by on Apr. 6, 2013 at 1:23 AM

BUMP!

Sunshine257
by on Apr. 6, 2013 at 1:28 AM
After the wedding
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by Platinum Member on Apr. 6, 2013 at 1:29 AM

after

Kaybean
by Kayleen on Apr. 6, 2013 at 1:32 AM
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I personally, would never purposely have a baby and plan it before being married. Wouldn't it be more special to plan a baby as husband and wife?
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LiveLoveLaugh13
by on Apr. 6, 2013 at 1:40 AM

I can understand that but any baby would be the most special to us :)

Quoting Kaybean:

I personally, would never purposely have a baby and plan it before being married. Wouldn't it be more special to plan a baby as husband and wife?


ljsIronwoman
by on Apr. 6, 2013 at 2:02 AM

Don't get me wrong here, but why are you waiting so long?? Obviously (to me) if your ready then you should be ready. Get married now, have have more children when they come and injoy eachother and your lives together with out all this complication..

Just a thought. Best of wishes to you!!

p.s.

I went without the honeymoon due to a fresh baby, I'll never regret my sonshine, but I sometimes feel sad for that spetial time I didn't get.

CrystalPystol
by on Apr. 6, 2013 at 2:15 AM

agree with this.

Quoting ljsIronwoman:

Don't get me wrong here, but why are you waiting so long?? Obviously (to me) if your ready then you should be ready. Get married now, have have more children when they come and injoy eachother and your lives together with out all this complication..

Just a thought. Best of wishes to you!!

p.s.

I went without the honeymoon due to a fresh baby, I'll never regret my sonshine, but I sometimes feel sad for that spetial time I didn't get.


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RADmomma
by on Apr. 6, 2013 at 3:12 AM
My daughter was born in September, we got married in may. We left her with my parents for a week to do our honeymoon. I spent more time thinking about her than I should have.

Take it from me.. Wait. Maybe bump up you're wedding date a little & then get pregnant.

I wouldn't want to stress myself about fitting a dress after just having a baby 6 months ago. I would use the time from now till the wedding to get healthy & fit. Look amazing on your big day & try to conceive from your wedding night on. Just my thoughts.

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