Quoting AustinsMommy007:I was like that with my ex I did it just so I didnt have to hear him bitch but I looooove sex with my new dh ;)
I love sex, I'm sorry you don't, you're missing out.
At times, I don't desire it, but I love it! It is more of the intimate connections SO and I have during.
I'm kinda the same way....it's not that I hate it...I just don't care if we ever have it :( I've always been this way. But then again, I know there are underlining reasons....I was molested growing up, then at 16 I was raped resulting in a pregnancy. I've always looked at sex as a bad, dirty thing....it's hard to get that out of my head....my husband is very understanding...and I still give in and have sex with him a couple times a week....he thinks I enjoy it and I love him enough to keep letting him think that. He is actually a great lover...it's just me.
i go back and forth.
alot of it for me is stress, getting my tubes tied changed alot and my ptsd
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Sorry you feel that way, you are really missing out on one of the true joys of life. Why don't you talk to your GYN?
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