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I hate sex

Posted by on Apr. 7, 2013 at 8:44 AM
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Does anyone else? It just doesn't desire me.
by on Apr. 7, 2013 at 8:44 AM
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AustinsMommy007
by Bronze Member on Apr. 7, 2013 at 8:46 AM
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I was like that with my ex I did it just so I didnt have to hear him bitch but I looooove sex with my new dh ;)
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a06z08mama
by Silver Member on Apr. 7, 2013 at 8:52 AM
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I hear ya completely!!! My SO. Wow. I never knew sex could be taken to another level like it is with him. I have no complaints at all with SO.


Quoting AustinsMommy007:

I was like that with my ex I did it just so I didnt have to hear him bitch but I looooove sex with my new dh ;)

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ayacocca
by Member on Apr. 7, 2013 at 10:04 AM
Are u a new mom? maybe hormones are out of wack ?
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kaylasmom22
by Silver Member on Apr. 7, 2013 at 10:07 AM
I'm right there with you,but my problem is that dh and I argue so much I don't desire him. I want sex just not with him. Sad but true
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bad_mama2011
by on Apr. 7, 2013 at 10:08 AM

I love sex, I'm sorry you don't, you're missing out.

ScrChk23
by Amanda on Apr. 7, 2013 at 10:11 AM

At times, I don't desire it, but I love it!  It is more of the intimate connections SO and I have during.

MsMimna
by Member on Apr. 7, 2013 at 10:16 AM

I'm kinda the same way....it's not that I hate it...I just don't care if we ever have it :(   I've always been this way. But then again, I know there are underlining reasons....I was molested growing up, then at 16 I was raped resulting in a pregnancy. I've always looked at sex as a bad, dirty thing....it's hard to get that out of my head....my husband is very understanding...and I still give in and have sex with him a couple times a week....he thinks I enjoy it and I love him enough to keep letting him think that. He is actually a great lover...it's just me.

mommysangelface
by Pagan Princess on Apr. 7, 2013 at 10:18 AM

i go back and forth. 

alot of it for me is stress, getting my tubes tied changed alot and my ptsd



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elasmimi
by Gold Member on Apr. 7, 2013 at 10:23 AM

Sorry you feel that way, you are really missing out on one of the true joys of life. Why don't you talk to your GYN?

juansmommy
by on Apr. 7, 2013 at 11:07 AM
I am in your boat. I detest it
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