Find it hard to confront my sister

[Ann706]

I have three brothers s and one sister. I am also married with three lovely boys so life is busy . My sister over the years put me through he'll threw stuff in my face that I told her . Etc etc . We didn't speak for 1 year and 10 months and I swore I would never go back there. Bit I did for first while only on a functional basis . But now I feel like u am being drawn into get bullshit lies and immaturity but if I try to confront her it's world war three . It gets better the reason I won't risk ww3 is I feel like I am afraid of losing my mom who wants us all to be Pollyanna . None of my brothers talk to her. I attend a counsellor to try deal with this but the counsellor rightly wants to talk about my own stuff and why I go back for more . Hope some of this makes sense feel so shite

[NDADanceMom]

I don't understand what you are trying to say.

[mommysangelface]

I'm glad I'm not the only one. Lol

Quoting NDADanceMom:

I don't understand what you are trying to say.

[Ann706]

Ye it's not very clear basically I feel I am been drawn back in there now she is lying about her relationship and expecting me to believe her and validate her I tried to keep emotionally detached and I am not doing it

[3_girls_86]

just don't talk to her anymore.

[Paigesmommy78]

I kinda get what you are saying but what r u asking
Sorry u have this kinda of relationship with it family

[Ann706]

Ye sorryommy angel face did you evey get that upset that you know what you mean but can't get it out there sorry phone hard to use o just feel I can't believe the bill shit but if I confront her she will go ape

[Ann706]

Basically she says she doesn't love boyfriend no physical side but then stay night with him she says they are just friends I could care less if she did or not but don't try fool others . It took me long enough to let her back on now I feel she is making fool of me again

[Ann706]

I should add she only moved away from him last Friday . I get she feels she can't be on her own but she has never been in one health y relationship age us now 47 I t kills me that she expects me to agree with her