Hello everybody, my name is Christa. I am mother to a wonderful little boy who will turn 4 this summer. I was a single mother for a couple of years, and my ex and I have had our issues but we keep things very light and we communicate pretty well. Even though i have always been his main caregiver and his financial provider I still want he and his dad to have a fantastic relationship. His dad works out of town and when he is around spends a day or two with our boy and then when he is on his month off he spends quite a bit of time with him. It is great for our boy, however theonly selfish thing on my part is that he has more fun with dad and a lot less discipline there... he cried and whines and asks for dad all the time. so much so that i go and hide and cry to myself. it breaks my heart that it seems like he is anti mom right now. I know it is hard for him to go back and forth but any advice on having him be more pro mommy at times too?
thanks a lot for taking the time to read