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Am I over reacting? Vent* how would you handle this situation?

Posted by on Apr. 11, 2013 at 10:01 PM
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Today I had to run my grandma on a few errands since her car is in the shop, I was expecting a package to be delivered today soo I left my 18 year old brother there soo he could sign for it,since he didnt have to class until 6pm, well me & my grandma finished early & we decided to just chill at my house & let the traffic die down before I took her home, I get there & I here noises coming from my bedroom,& moaning..... I busted in (I sure didnt knock)& low and behold it's my little brother in my bed having sex with this girl,my eyes got HUGE!im seriously still In shock, I don't even remember what I said, but all I know is after I got done "going off" my grandma said" girl you sure do use the *muthaF---* word alot".....& after the 24 year old girl got on her clothes & got out my brother kept telling me to "chill out"& to stop " hating" he actually thought it was funny! & when I called my step dad,& my other brothers to tell them about this they thought it was funny!!! I feel completely disrespected!!!! Am I really over reacting?! I know he's grown & all but in my house?! In my bed?! That is just beyond disrespectful
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bcauseimthemom
by Bronze Member on Apr. 11, 2013 at 10:04 PM
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I would be charging him for new sheets.

HRT0987
by on Apr. 11, 2013 at 10:05 PM
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I would've done the same thing!! That's disrespectful!
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myownparadise
by on Apr. 11, 2013 at 10:05 PM
I would have been pissed. He was supposed to be doing you a favor, not f*****g some girl in your bed.
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LAXmom21
by Silver Member on Apr. 11, 2013 at 10:09 PM
I'm going to have to disagree with the previous posters. I'd be grossed out and make him change the sheets. Id call him a jackass, tell him to never do it again and tell my DH who would then laugh.
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shaunaleigh418
by Platinum Member on Apr. 11, 2013 at 10:10 PM
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Your family thought it was funny because he's an 18 year old boy. Had it been a girl, she would be a slut and disowned.
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Jos40
by on Apr. 11, 2013 at 10:18 PM
Stupid male shit!!
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momma2mms
by Gold Member on Apr. 11, 2013 at 10:30 PM

My dad would not find that funny. Gross.

Living4Duke
by on Apr. 11, 2013 at 10:39 PM
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I would have whipped both of their asses. The only person getting busy in my house/bed is me.
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Sshort28
by on Apr. 11, 2013 at 11:15 PM
Oh hell no! That's crazy!
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momtoBrenna
by Silver Member on Apr. 11, 2013 at 11:18 PM
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I would have been mad too because of the in your bed part. The sex in general not as much but the in your bed part is ridiculous!

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