Im new here but I could really use some advice. My husband left me on Sunday, we have kids and have been together for 8 years. We have been having some major issues for the past year or so. I've felt depressed, moody, I haven't wanted sex at all. I snap at him for really little things. I sleep a ton and have been lacking interest in all things. He has been telling me all along that I need to fix these things because they are making him unhappy. Well I tried and tried and I found my self constantly telling him I didn't know how to change. I felt stuck and lost. Sunday was the breaking point and he left. He's so adamant that we divorce because I've hurt him so badly that its unfixable. I went and saw a therapist on Friday and she said something that clicked right away. She asked me about birth control and I told her I have the mirena. I have not gotten a period in over a year. She told me to look into and I've been reading everything I can find and just keep having this "uh-huh" moment with each article I read. I know this is what's causing me to be this way, I knew it wasn't that I didn't want to change, I truly didn't have control over it. now my problem is im afraid if I tell him this even if I have the doctor say this is valid, he won't take that as a reason, he'll take it as an excuse. I do not want my marriage to end because of this. He's the only man I've ever loved and I just want our family back. Please help, and nothing negative. I'm putting my heart out here. Thank you for.reading.
on Apr. 14, 2013 at 8:35 AM