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Should i leave my husband for his new lover??

Posted by on Apr. 17, 2013 at 3:40 AM
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Am married with 4 yrs old girl and now pregnant with our second child,i recently found out that my husband is having an affair with a lady that works for his brother.Our daughter was playing phone games with him then he told her to go and play with mom,we played till she fell asleep the i went for his messages and found one msg that reads"Good morning baby" i recognised the number them i woke him up and he said it is what i was looking.then we left it at that.few days later i searched the phone again,this time it was the lady"see u next time,then when i ask him what is going on he said"am old enough to do want i want,your are not my mother,u cant contol or own me,i support u and do everything for u,so what is your problem.PLS help i feel so heavy i want to leave him alone. 

by on Apr. 17, 2013 at 3:40 AM
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krayzbabylove
by on Apr. 17, 2013 at 3:41 AM
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Move out.
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manda-nicole010
by on Apr. 17, 2013 at 3:43 AM
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Leaving might not be a bad idea. Doesn't sound like plans on stopping. Sorry :(

mishamama
by Silver Member on Apr. 17, 2013 at 3:45 AM
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Am I the only one having a hard time reading this?
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hnjen12
by on Apr. 17, 2013 at 3:46 AM
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Doesn't seem to care that u caught him. Apparently he left the marriage long ago, might be ur cue to go to. File for divorce sue him for full custody & make him pay out the ass for his kids. Good luck & try not to stress
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Ninjascreenname
by Member on Apr. 17, 2013 at 3:47 AM
Leave him. Why stay with someone who cheats on you and shows no remorse?
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TXbornmama
by on Apr. 17, 2013 at 4:13 AM
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I agree he doesn't sound like he is trying to hide it either. Good Luck ...

Quoting manda-nicole010:

Leaving might not be a bad idea. Doesn't sound like plans on stopping. Sorry :(


Krystina885
by on Apr. 17, 2013 at 4:30 AM

If you are even slightly intelligent you will read your own question and see the answer very clearly.

buna363
by on Apr. 17, 2013 at 5:41 AM

We are from different countries and this thing happened 3 week before his trip to his country,We were not speaking till he left,so now he is trying to softern me,  i feel like is bit to late since we had three week in the same house to talk b4 his trip.

notjstasocermom
by Samantha on Apr. 17, 2013 at 7:03 AM

uh......

ashley9603
by on Apr. 17, 2013 at 8:31 AM

Im a strong advocate of keeping a marriage together,but is he is unwilling to leave this woman then there really is no other option in my opinion.I would at least seperate for awhile.Im sorry momma.

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