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my son the boob graber

Posted by on Apr. 18, 2013 at 10:41 PM
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Ds has become fascinated with my boobs. He's not breastfeeding. He is also four so mommy's anatomy is so "cool". I've tried to down play it thinking it was a phase. Today I told him its not like his tummy but mommy's boobs are like his penis we don't touch. But I really feel like I sent the wrong message. He's developmentally around a 3 yr old, so he understands that its a no but not sure why. Anyone got any ideas on how I should deal with this? He only does it to me.
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WAHMommy13
by on Apr. 18, 2013 at 11:15 PM

Its got to be a boy thing lol. My son does the same thing on occasion but i breastfed so i wonder if that has a oart to play because he knows at one time thats how he ate. Idk i wouldnt make a big fuss out of it i would just tell him that its a no no. He also might be doing it to get a reaction out of you. If he does it just set him down and find something good for him to play with. Hes still little and curious. he'll probably grow out of it. :)

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Junebaby18
by Bronze Member on Apr. 18, 2013 at 11:24 PM
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It's totally normal. Just tell him every time he touches your breasts that those are mommy's private parts and its not ok to touch other people's private areas. Take his hand and tell him he can touch your arm, shoulder, leg etc. At 3-4 is a good time to teach who can touch what part of their body and who can't. Good touch, bad touch type of thing.
MzShorty787
by on Apr. 18, 2013 at 11:25 PM
My son is almost 2 and has a book thing too
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Bookoholic
by Silver Member on Apr. 18, 2013 at 11:32 PM
Awesome I'll try this


Quoting Junebaby18:

It's totally normal. Just tell him every time he touches your breasts that those are mommy's private parts and its not ok to touch other people's private areas. Take his hand and tell him he can touch your arm, shoulder, leg etc. At 3-4 is a good time to teach who can touch what part of their body and who can't. Good touch, bad touch type of thing.

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