Question: Is this fair?
Total Votes: 7
My husband has had a job now for about a year. He works nights, from 4pm-1am. Then he would come home and play video games which is fine by me, I normally ask him to play. But we got an apt. and we are in the processes of moving out of my parents house. So I got a job so I can help with bills and rent. I work morning and afternoons.
But here is the problem, I wake up at 8:30am to get ready for work, breastfeed our 2 1/2 month old daughter. I do my hair, make up and brush my teeth. I dress our baby and pack her bag for the babysitters. I wake up my hubby and get him clothing. I pack the car and go to work. I get there at 9:45am to start at 10am. My hubby just has to drop of our daughter at the babysitters then he gets to go home and sleep again. I work from 10am until 2pm take a 30 minute break, when I call my hubby and talk to him about money and our wedding which I am planning. Then I go back to work and work until 3:30pm. My hubby normally picks me up at 4pm, then we pick up our daughter from the babysitters.
Then we drive out to his work because he starts at 5pm. My mom is his boss so I wait for her to get off work. She normally gets off work at 6 or 7pm. We then go home, where I have to feed my daughter, do laundry, clean the room, pack our stuff, feed the cat, work on the wedding plans, work on a budget because we have no money to spend on anything but bills. I have maybe 20 or 30 minutes to sleep because this is when my daughter is wake, and if she doesn't stay awake then she is up all night.
I have until 1am until my hubby gets home. We spend time together until about 3am, when I have to feed my daughter again before putting her to bed. Then the next day I am up at 8:30am again.... Is this fair? Did I get the bad end of the deal? Also I am only getting 15 hours a week where my husband is getting 45, Is this to much work for 15 hours a week?