Fast forward to 4 years later. Grandpa died 3 years ago. Said aunt is still living with grandma because she (aunt feels its best) aunt now has had her hub of one year living there too. Aunt has no job. Her hub has a new job every 3-4 months or when he feels like it.
House is disgusting. Pet hair everywhere. Years of laundry piled up that gets rotated every so often.
Grandma has no bathed in who knows how long. Had her medication screwed up. So was sick. Does not get offered food when aunt makes any.
Now said aunt's daughter was living there too. But granddaughter was feeding grandma. And picking up the house.
Granddaughter and her mother got into it. Things escalated. And had been at peak all day. Night time hits. And cops get called. Whole family on pins. And needles.
So now. Everybody is pissed at everyone else. I'm tired of it. I just want to stand up and scream at them.
What would you do? Do you feel like this is a case for elder abuse? Oh and might add that grandma "has the I don't care about anything attitude" but I think its been fed to her not to care. She only leaves for doctors appointments.