Ok soo before I get bashed let me explain why this is my opinion, I have a cousin(19) years old and she came to spend the weekend with me, well she has a baby with autism, she gets a SSI check every month, plus she gets money and food stamps, she lives with her mom,& she doesn't have to pay rent, by groceries,pay bills etc, her mom and her step dad babysits the baby while she goes to school (she goes to a continuation school) well... Anyways I picked her up from her bf's house Thursday (not the baby's daddy her bf is 16) and she came to my car & started going thru her purse and I see a whole bunch of week,I tell her" you can't bring that to my house and u can't get in my car with that soo I don't know what to tell you,she says" ooh I bought it for him (talking about her bf) & then she said" can you take Vivi (her friend & her friends daughter) home? I'll give u gas money" I said "sure soo we drive all the way across town and I say" uhh where is your baby"& she goes " omg I forgot I left him with jenny (her baby daddy's great great grandma"I say " Wth? Why did u take him there & she says cause she wanted to spend time with her boyfriend, soo when we get the baby I see he doesn't have a haircut,or a bath I ask her has he been bathed,&she say " ooh cause I haven't bought any bath was for him soo I say we're going to target right now soo u can buy some, soo we go into target and I'm shopping for my sisters new born and I meet her at the car when I'm done, I ask her did she get what she needed she says yea,so when we get to my house I say " I'll run him some bath water, because he smelled really bad,& she says " ooh that's ok I didn't get him his body wash I asked why,& she told me because she bought a prepaid phone card for herself,& a new bra,... Later that night I hear her on the phone talking about how she gave her boyfriends mom her food stamps,& how she gave her bf $300 today,& how her and her bf is getting a hotel room tomorrow!
You moms understand my frustration right?! I hope soo this girl made my blood boil.... Her baby daddy is in prison for rape,& she have like6 tattoos with his name,she pays like $70 a tattoo but she can't buy her baby is body wash!! Ugh this was just a vent I had to get it off my chest, her monthly income is about $1000.00 & she blows it all on her boyfriend and herself
on May. 4, 2013 at 11:10 PM