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I want to put my baby girl in a pagant but my husband refuses she is 3months an i would stop when she turns 2 before it gets wild with all the make up but she is beautiful an i think she would do good he hates the thought he seen toddlers and tiaras an flipped he said his child would never do it am i wrong for wanting to or is he right
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by on May. 10, 2013 at 8:54 AM
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Bmat
by Ruby Member on May. 10, 2013 at 12:11 PM

It gets to be pretty expensive.

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by Emerald Member on May. 10, 2013 at 12:14 PM

Hi there,
I guess you can keep talking to him.
If he doesn't change his mind then sorry.
Good luck :)

notjstasocermom
by Samantha on May. 10, 2013 at 12:48 PM



Quoting ScrChk23:

I wouldn't, but that is me.



Caitlin10081989
by Ruby Member on May. 10, 2013 at 1:28 PM

Your not wrong for wanting your baby to be in a beauty pageant. If he does not want your baby to be in a beauty pageant sit down and talk with him about it and maybe go and see one. Maybe if he sees that the pageants are not like toddlers and tiaras he will change his mind and let your baby be in some beauty pageants. 

Marimaru
by on May. 10, 2013 at 1:53 PM

I'm not a fan of the idea.  I think that's undue stress on a baby.

Roo1234
by Bronze Member on May. 10, 2013 at 3:27 PM

What would your daughter gain from the experience?

coolmommy2x
by Ruby Member on May. 10, 2013 at 3:31 PM
I agree.

OP, I would take DH to one so he can see it in person. IRL, it might not be as bad as what he's envisioning.


Quoting elasmimi:

I sort of agree with this, I'm trying to teach my daughter that there is more to beauty than her appearance. But if you are going to do it, this is the best age, just my opinion.

Quoting Reina13:

Personally I wouldnt do it. It is too easy to get caught up in it all. I would rather just enjoy my baby being a baby. Good luck though.



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jconney80
by Platinum Member on May. 13, 2013 at 11:53 PM
I probably wouldn't but if you don't want to take it too far I don't see why not if your hubby agrees
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ditsyjo
by Gold Member on May. 13, 2013 at 11:56 PM

I would say you aren't wrong but neither is he. your intentions are fine if you can stick to them but he's right too it is really easy to get caught up in them. it's just one of those theings you have to decide together

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