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How often do you and your partner say ILY

Posted by on Jun. 17, 2013 at 10:48 AM
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Question: How often do you and your partner say "I Love you" to each other?

Options:

Randomly and frequently thru out the day

When we leave each other for the day, phone calls, bedtime...

We have gone days or longer without saying it

Other- explain below


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Total Votes: 104

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by on Jun. 17, 2013 at 10:48 AM
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alli1204
by Silver Member on Jun. 17, 2013 at 10:50 AM
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Many times throughout the day :)
Mrs.Kubalabuku
by Silver Member on Jun. 17, 2013 at 10:50 AM
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We say it all the time.  I'll admit, quite a few of them come from habit, like when he leaves for work we say "I love you" and smooch as he heads out the door.  But sometimes, he'll catch me and say it again, just to let me know he still means it.

Jerzeemom
by on Jun. 17, 2013 at 10:55 AM

In my last marriage, it very quickly became routine and lost its meaning. My husband now and I have been together for 3 years and have gone thru just about every hardship and challange you can think of and the words "I love you" have never lost their meaning. We say it alot for no reason thru out the day and he says it just as much as I do. Its really cute. We even have little codes. Like when we can't say it, he'll squeeze my hand and I'll squeeze it back to say "i love you" :) 

happysnappy
by on Jun. 17, 2013 at 2:25 PM
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all the time! 12 years of marriage and more in love today than yesterday :)

mom_dl6
by Platinum Member on Jun. 17, 2013 at 2:36 PM

A lot throughout our Day. 


                         


ScrChk23
by Amanda on Jun. 17, 2013 at 2:55 PM

 Several times through out the day.

taKENheart
by Flovely on Jun. 17, 2013 at 3:07 PM

 That's a very good question!  I honestly don't keep track and perhaps I should ;)
I know we do the usual ILY when we get off the phone.  We say it randomly but probably not daily.  We've been together 16yrs total.  I'm sure we said it daily in the early years. 

nerdymom28
by Silver Member on Jun. 17, 2013 at 3:09 PM
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 Rarely. We just show that we love each other through our actions. It's just not something we say often. Not because we don't mean it, but because I guess we just don't find it necessary.

RADmomma
by on Jun. 17, 2013 at 6:16 PM
When he leaves for work, before bed & if we talk on the phone, which is not often.., but he'll text me " I love ya... Just so ya know" randomly
ilovedarell
by on Jun. 17, 2013 at 6:18 PM
24/7
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