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Question....if your spouse passes away and you get remarried......

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when you pass away....who do you get buried beside ? Your first husband/wife or your second husband/wife?

by on Jun. 17, 2013 at 3:25 PM
Replies (11-20):
Marimaru
by on Jun. 17, 2013 at 4:07 PM

My husband and I both want to be cremated.  I want my remains spread somewhere.  I do not want to leave my kids wondering what to do with an urn.  I'm pretty sure my husband wants the same, but I should clarify that with him next time it comes up in conversation.

pinkcoffeecup
by Gold Member on Jun. 17, 2013 at 4:08 PM

I won't ever be in that position.  I won't remarry when dh passes.  So I will be buried next to him.

mom_dl6
by Platinum Member on Jun. 17, 2013 at 4:22 PM

I would NOT Remarry 

                         


Aislinn
by on Jun. 17, 2013 at 4:22 PM

 I get cremated and tossed into the Kennebec River. Problem solved. lol

jomami
by Bronze Member on Jun. 17, 2013 at 8:19 PM

 The problem is only solved if you have your ashes scattered somewhere or something like that.

My grandparents were both cremated but before they died, the bought a shelf at a mausoleum where their urns sit next to each other!


Quoting alexsmomaubrys2:

DH and I don't believe in being buried. We are going to be cremated. Problem solved.


 

jomami
by Bronze Member on Jun. 17, 2013 at 8:20 PM

What if he dies early and you meet someone special?


Quoting pinkcoffeecup:

I won't ever be in that position.  I won't remarry when dh passes.  So I will be buried next to him.


 

kitty8199
by Ruby Member on Jun. 17, 2013 at 8:21 PM
First husband. At least that's how it's worked for the people I know that had this happen.
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jomami
by Bronze Member on Jun. 17, 2013 at 8:21 PM

 Why not?  What if he dies young?


Quoting mom_dl6:

I would NOT Remarry 


 

lilmama3189
by on Jun. 17, 2013 at 8:23 PM
Don't you mean buried?


Quoting TS9509:

I will be married next to my first husband. When he passed away unexceptedly I purchased the space next to him got me and the space above him for our son.

alexsmomaubrys2
by Platinum Member on Jun. 17, 2013 at 8:27 PM

I want to be spread or have a tree planted over my ashes. My children will get custody if my spouse dies before me.

Quoting frndlyfn:


Some people who get cremated also get buried in their urn or their ashs put in the plot designated.   Who will get custody of your ashes when you pass?

Quoting alexsmomaubrys2:

DH and I don't believe in being buried. We are going to be cremated. Problem solved.




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