seriously??? I don't know what else to do..
here is some background info...my son is in the marines, he joined right after high school. well he finally got stationed in VA and has been there for a while now. his four years are actually up, but still works on the base..well anyways while he has been in VA he has meet a girl, my son is almost 24 and this girl is i think 21 or 22..ok.. well they been together for about 8 to 11 months, not sure..but we only meet her once..they go back to VA, and about 1 month they call and said they were pregnant, well i was excited, and happy for them, well they miscarried, and she was going thru a difficult time with it. well my son was there the whole time trying to get her thru this. well he decided to pop the question (marriage) well she was excited, and they started to plan the wedding. but before any of this happened, she was always worried she was going to get hurt and my son would leave her. bc she has been hurt several times..ok..well my son told me he asked her to get married, i was happy for them both..here i thought they would sit and plan a wedding, and get married the folowing year..well no they decided to get married within 4 months after losing the baby. ok..np..so we go to VA in july for the wedding. ok..got along good, and just about a month ago, i see a post on FB from my son's wife saying how much can you take before you walk away..never thought anything about it...get a call from my DD, and she asks "is there a reason your Daughter in law changes her name back to her original name" I said really, so i check, well i seen she was online and asked her if anything was wrong...she said i should ask my son..but did tell me that my son went pyscho on her...well this is hard to beleive, bc my son isn't that type of person, he is quiet and a polite young man..so i asked my son about it, he said it started about a month ago (so back in april or may) she decided that she needed to think about things..ok..well she asked him to move out, so he moved back on base. then she asked him to move back in..which only lasted a few days, so again he is on base. he is putting every effort he can to make this marriage work but she isnt...she says he is holding her back from joining the navy, well in my opionion if she wanted to join the navy she should of did this before she got married..now she wants a divorce after only being married for 10 months. she was afraid of being hurt before but what does she think she is doing to him?? so it looks like my son is going to get a divorce, which he isn't happy about bc he knows a marriage should last, bc this is how he was raised. i feel so bad for him, and he isn't opening up, and telling me anything. he has only told me bits and pieces...Is there anything i can do?? i already told him im there to listen. he has been home since last friday for a week visit, and still no talking about it. he goes back home sunday! please give me advice if you can..thanks