Im thinking about keeping my son from his father
Before making this decision I want to get som unbiased thoughts from people who do not know us so thanks in advance. When my son was born his father took a turn for the worst. He began both selling and doing drugs,partying,and so on. He went to jail on and off up until our son was 5. Finally a judge got tired of the back and forth and locked him away for 7 long years. I met someone and got married during this time. Things have been pretty good. When my ex got out a year ago he began trying to form a relationship with our son and it was okay at first,but when he tried starting something with me behind his girlfriend's back I shut him down and reminded him we are co parents, MAYBE friends,but nothing more. It went downhill from there. His girlfriend began harrassing me accusing me of trying to be with him and yada,yada,yada which leads me to believe he got caught and lied on me. In the meantime he gets mad at our son for not wanting to live with him,visit him,etc. I have told him over and over that he made his bed when he chose drugs over his son. He has to accept that their relationship may never be what he wants it to be. When he gets mad he texts me things like...IF he is really mine" and he has even told our son "Youre a monster and I dont need you I have my other kids to replace you." Then when he found out I am diabetic he texted our son saying that he hopes I die. All of this just frustrates my husband and makes him want to handle it in ways that I know are outside his character but his back is against the wall and this man is bothering his family KWIM? So at what point do I draw the line and tell my son enough is enough and that he isnt allowed to talk to him anymore?