Would it offend you or hurt your feelings if.....?
Ok my mom is a smoker. She knows my husband is allergic to cigaret smoke. And that it means the kids might be as well. She has stuff to send the kids which is fine. But it includes four stuffed Christmas bears. Two of the she has had for a year and a half in her home ther other two she has had since this past Christmas in her home. She kept them in a room with the door shut but she does smoke in her home and has central air which means the air circulates through the whole place. I told her that I was going to wash the bears first before I let the kids play with them and stuff. And she got mad and said I hurt her feelings and offended her for saying that. Would it offend you for someone to wash a gift if you smoke?