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am I insecure...

Posted by on Jul. 5, 2013 at 7:59 PM
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I have been in a relationship for a few most...although my bf has a active Facebook of..once I saw it didn't seem harmful I left it alone...today he gets a text from a female that as happy late fourth I miss you...I let go of male frds like that when we got into a relationship...am I bing insecure
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frndlyfn
by Emerald Member on Jul. 5, 2013 at 8:11 PM

Why did you let go of friends you had ?  I never gave any friends up nor did my guy.  I would just ask him how long he has known this friend.

NDADanceMom
by on Jul. 5, 2013 at 8:18 PM
That was hard to understand.
If it makes you uncomfortable as him about it. Don't date a man that doesn't make you happy.
coolmommy2x
by Ruby Member on Jul. 5, 2013 at 8:24 PM
The message doesn't sound like a big deal but I don't think having friends of the opposite sex is a big deal Are you upset that he has female friends or was this particular one more than just a friend?
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eandt
by on Jul. 5, 2013 at 9:06 PM

 did you ask him about it?

MrsKaufold1990
by on Jul. 5, 2013 at 9:09 PM
Sorry if you have to ask then you are.
mama23brie
by on Jul. 5, 2013 at 9:16 PM
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I dunno about all these other replies but if my boyfriend got a text from a girl saying i miss you i would be livid. Just saying.
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Impressionists
by on Jul. 5, 2013 at 9:17 PM
There's nothing to be sorry for. I'm insecure, too. It's something that's hard to control, like being overweight, I think. No need to say you're sorry. It's a little condescending.


Quoting MrsKaufold1990:

Sorry if you have to ask then you are.

MrsKaufold1990
by on Jul. 5, 2013 at 9:24 PM
You can control being over weight unless you have medical reasoning


Quoting Impressionists:

There's nothing to be sorry for. I'm insecure, too. It's something that's hard to control, like being overweight, I think. No need to say you're sorry. It's a little condescending.




Quoting MrsKaufold1990:

Sorry if you have to ask then you are.


Impressionists
by on Jul. 5, 2013 at 9:27 PM
You can go to counseling or get a book to try to help for insecurity, for example. If you're overweight, you can go to weight watchers.
elasmimi
by Platinum Member on Jul. 6, 2013 at 2:04 PM

It was a little hard to understand, but I feel the same about dating someone who doesn't make you happy.

Quoting NDADanceMom:

That was hard to understand.
If it makes you uncomfortable as him about it. Don't date a man that doesn't make you happy.


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