Advice needed: Baby that could be husbands
Please don't judge me. I just need a some advice.
My husband and I separated last year, and while we were apart he had sex with another woman. I've since forgiven him. She has since had a baby that she claims to be his, but will not do a DNA test to prove it. We know that the baby could be his and we would like to know for sure. We offered to pay for the DNA test. He has even told her that he would pay child support, but she still refuses. He would like to be in this child's life, IF its his. I don't have a problem with that. She doesn't want him to be. She said that her boyfriend is going to be the baby's father, and that she does not want to confuse her baby because she already knows him as her father. She also says that she won't seek child support in the future. How can we guarantee that? She just wants to go on as it never happened. She says she's sorry for the problems she's caused, and just wants to forget about it. She says she's happy and we're happy so just forget about it. I just don't know what to do. Should we just go on like this child, that could be my husbands, does not exist? Or should he go to the attorney general and put himself on child support?